As the saying goes "Nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai"....Originally posted by Gaius:it seems the good guys are the last to come to mind as far as girls are concerned when choosing their partner. bad guys always win the race. do u agree?
not really... sometimes it just happens whether the gal can click with the guy or not in the first place... whether good or bad...Originally posted by the Bear:because many have this misconception that they can "tame" the "bad guy"...
but you expect the man to change but he doesn't... the old cliche isn't it?
here's a thought:
he changes but she leaves him crying bitterly saying he isn't the man she fell for?
what gives?
If you think you wan bad guy..you better be no any better..Originally posted by lameist:Well i dun tink so as bad guy can be daring but they wun last long as soon or later they will be caught or the gal will change her mind wen she got sick of that dangerous life!
except me, darlingOriginally posted by Ah Ma:becos there's no good guy at all
x2 most of them r willing to pay for anythingOriginally posted by abterror:cos bad guys always seems more daring, fun, interesting and are good at words.![]()
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Originally posted by misled_youth:Hey! I liked your answers!
I'm sharing this my 2 cents with you self-confessed losers (no offence, but life's a bitch) because I spent 20 years of my life thinking the same thing.
You guys have the beggers can't be choosers syndrome.
The fault lies within CHOOSING to be a BEGGER in the first place.
What "bad boys" give that "nice, ball-less boys" can't give is confidence.
They dare to be different, and dare to be bold.
So? what ya gonna do? Sit in a corner and cry? DON"T EMBARESS YOURSELF!
[b]YOU OWE IT TO YOURSELF TO GET THE GIRL YOU DESIRE!
What you can do:
1. Dress up decently (in something you are comfortable with), and go to the shopping centre.
2. Smile naturally and say confidently "Hi!" to everygirl you find cute, attractive etc.
3. Go home, and reflect. If I can do that, and get 10% to respond positively, to you then...
4. Think about what you more you can do in a one-on-one situation!
Stop blaming the bad boys. Blame yourself for not having the motivation and the confidence.
Everytime you see a girl, say this to your self:
- The force is with you x3
- I will be unique, interesting and I will be myself. x3
- I will get her phone number x3
Train yourself to get ready!
I'm speaking as a person who have changed my ways and now date more women in 3 years than the amount of teeth I got.
Remember, as Captain Picard (Star Trek: Next Generation) quips... "Make it so!".
Good luck people! Stop being losers! and keep me posted on your progress![/b]