Originally posted by pheonix:personally, i'll still prefer guys to make the 1st move... normally when the gals go after guys, the guys will not cherish the gals as much as when they actually woo them themselves... if i like a guy, i'll just try to hint him or do stuff to make him notice my existence, but at the same time, preserve abit of a gal's dignity and wait for the guy to response... if the guy's interested, then he'll surely reciprocate, otherwise, i'll treat it as nothing ever happen... in such way, we can still remain as friends, and not be embarassed when seeing each other... there's nothing wrong with gals "chasing" after guys since i think that if one like someone, he/she should have to let the other party know so as not to live in regrets...
Not all guys don't cherish the girl that goes after them. It depends a lot on indiviual thinking and how they handle their relationships or friendships.Originally posted by pheonix:personally, i'll still prefer guys to make the 1st move... normally when the gals go after guys, the guys will not cherish the gals as much as when they actually woo them themselves... if i like a guy, i'll just try to hint him or do stuff to make him notice my existence, but at the same time, preserve abit of a gal's dignity and wait for the guy to response... if the guy's interested, then he'll surely reciprocate, otherwise, i'll treat it as nothing ever happen... in such way, we can still remain as friends, and not be embarassed when seeing each other... there's nothing wrong with gals "chasing" after guys since i think that if one like someone, he/she should have to let the other party know so as not to live in regrets...
Hints... such as ?Originally posted by pheonix:hmm... personally, i still feel that when guys finally have the gal of their dream after going thru' all sorts of obstacles, they'll treasure more than when they get their gals too easily... for instance, the people in poor countries treat food more impt than anything else whereas people like us juz waste food like no other people's business, we'll only panic when something like the water issue occurs... human beings are all the same, they'll only learn how to cherish something when they lose it...
as for the hinting part, i ever tried to give really obvious hints that even the most stupid guy in the world will know... so even after all the very obvious hints and the guy still act ignorant, i think the game's over loh...
It works this way. Generally you can say that its forever gonna be the guy making the move. Its traditional, its right. No doubt that there will be a few special cases for the ladies.Originally posted by toiletbowl86:can anyone tell?are there some girls who look for boys?or is it forever boys look for girls?if u are a girl,change this,look for me.hehe
Sian mi lah! I wouldnt reject u 1.Originally posted by blurqueen12:ya if u r courageous or foolish enough like me to sian a guy n sae i like u n in da end kenna reject.