Girl friend problem
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I didn't post at aunt agony cause i think too many posts there. Just wanna get something off my chest, maybe you guys can give some good/bad suggestions.
I'm thinking of confronting my friend, like end the friendship.
First is, we no longer have things in interest.
Second, she stole my things.
Third. she only talks but never listens .
Fourth, she's always brag in a way she hates what people say about her
Fith, We're constantly putting each other down. we obviously hate each other.
isn't all these enough??
the reason why i have doubt is because
Sometimes shes nice. ( i just realise this is the only reason so wtf)
Advice please!
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How old are the both of you? Sounds like a maturity issue for one or both of you.
Read this book: Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus. My other half read it too, and we are much better off now.
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Sometimes treating you nice doesn't necessarily mean she's a good friend. If you already have doubts about this friendship, do you really think it will ever last?
Ending a friendship, especially when both of you are in the same clique, will definitely affect the other friends within. If you really decide to cut off all ties with her, be prepared that either one of you will drift away from the clique. So think carefully about this.
Otherwise, why not try talking to her nicely about this? Let her know that her attitude and behaviour has been affecting you. If she still doesn't listen or care, it means she doesn't really treat you as a real friend. I wonder if your other friends also think the same way as you.
You said both of you obviously hate each other, so do you think it's even called a friendship in the first place?
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why would she steal your stuff? why would you be putting each other down? did this happen recently or sometime after you got to know her?
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how old are you?
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and you seems to be describing(did i spell it wrong) a friend of my, ting ting.(maybe not)
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Originally posted by mashpotato:
I didn't post at aunt agony cause i think too many posts there. Just wanna get something off my chest, maybe you guys can give some good/bad suggestions.
I'm thinking of confronting my friend, like end the friendship.
First is, we no longer have things in interest.
Second, she stole my things.
Third. she only talks but never listens .
Fourth, she's always brag in a way she hates what people say about her
Fith, We're constantly putting each other down. we obviously hate each other.
isn't all these enough??
the reason why i have doubt is because
Sometimes shes nice. ( i just realise this is the only reason so wtf)
Advice please!
Hi mashpotato,
I believe that you should indeed have a talk with your friend, though it shouldn't go to the extent of asking for an ending of friendship immediately.
You must understand, your perspective might be different from hers. She make just take you as a good friend, and thus took your things without telling you, which happens to be a undesirable bad habit which some of my friends have. However, from your point of view, she is stealing your things.
Although you think that the two of you hate each other, she may just view it as "friendly bickering" whenever the two of you have petty arguments, which once again is a characteristic which is not uncommon among teenage girls.
Cheers.
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You do not have to "end" the friendship, you can simply choose to walk away from it, or stop "advancing" the friendship.
It is much better to have a friend, than a neutral party, than an enemy.
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seriously dont get LOL