Do you prefer singlehood?
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Single have its advantages, can go out party with buddys all day long, got time to spend time with family, hobbies and a lot more. Man I almost got no time for myself..much less a relationship.
Loneliness comes when most of your close friends are getting married and having kids.
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when you're attached, u wish u were single, if u were single, u wish u were attached
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close friends getting married and having kids?
that's their loss
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Yup, but at the end of the day one does eventually settle down. No one wants to be alone for the rest of their lifes ma.. if cheong until a certain age still cannot find gf/wife can get Vietnamese/Thai ones. :D
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den how about a female who wanted to settle down but still can't find a husband or bf...is there a Thai/Vietnamese groom available....
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den how about a female who wanted to settle down but still can't find a husband or bf...is there a Thai/Vietnamese groom available....
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after facing a few trials,yes,i do prefer singlehood now.too lazy to explain.
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even if i cant find a husband, i will never get married to a thai nor viet nor malaysian.yucks.
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flolxh ---- u go there and find it la!!
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Originally posted by brainerror:
even if i cant find a husband, i will never get married to a thai nor viet nor malaysian.yucks.
singaporean leh?
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dont ever get a thai/viet bride or groom laaa.
u dont wanna go down to the construction site and realise they look like ur husband right....
if got money to buy thai/viet groom, might as well splurge a little more and get someone from...Australia.
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Originally posted by 93'guy:
singaporean leh?
singaporean i dont mind. -
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Originally posted by Callan:
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see the post before yours -
Being single sucks..
though i'd rahter be single than be with sumone else..
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Originally posted by Deino:
Being single sucks..
though i'd rahter be single than be with sumone else..
so basically your life sucks?
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Originally posted by Callan:
so basically your life sucks?
you mean it sucks either way you look at it?
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Originally posted by Callan:
If you are always out with someone(who ever it is) , it's not easy to be lonely. Sometimes I wish I have more time to myself.
Actually sometimes I feel that even when you are in a relationship, you dun really have to report to the person all the time. Trust is the key to managing a r/s in this manner, and such relationship are really enjoyable.
You Casanova ar? not enough time for yourself. Having lots of parties and outings don't necessary means you are not lonely leh.
As much as we preach that r/s is based on trust but how much trust?
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
when you're attached, u wish u were single, if u were single, u wish u were attached
you always want what you can't have.. right?
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Originally posted by muffincakes:
you always want what you can't have.. right?
not exactly that. it's more like, when you're in a certain status, you get numbed to the goodness of the situation, and take it for granted, but you get annoyed by the cons of the situation, which leads you to wish you weren't in that status.
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call me stupid...but i still want her back T-T...
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Originally posted by dumbdumb!:
not exactly that. it's more like, when you're in a certain status, you get numbed to the goodness of the situation, and take it for granted, but you get annoyed by the cons of the situation, which leads you to wish you weren't in that status.
ahh.. i know that feeling.. cause you have it everyday so you don't notice it..
i guess that's up to an individual to really appreciate what they have right now..
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i had nvr preferred being single
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i want to be attached.
its was never my will to broke up with her.
now i can't find any one
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Originally posted by X-men:
You Casanova ar? not enough time for yourself. Having lots of parties and outings don't necessary means you are not lonely leh.
As much as we preach that r/s is based on trust but how much trust?
Truly, I meant what I said. And I'm not talking about parties and outings. I'm always out with someone most of the time. And that does not meant dates too. I can be work related, with a relative or family, or just a casual dinner with a friend of the same sex. Too many people, too litle time.
How much trust is what you and your partner is comfortable with. My tolerance is pretty high and thus I would need someone with a high tolerance of trust to be in a r/s with me. I dun need her to report to me, maybe just let me know that she is not free but I dun need to know who or why. She can choose to tell me but it does not matter really to me whether she is out with a guy or a gal. It's not that I dun care, I just believe that it's the heart that matters. I have many platonic r/s with ladies, and I know that they are really platonic. So if I can be friends with ladies and go out for dinner with them just like I'm going out with a guy, I believe that a lady can have platonic r/s with a guy too. And thus my trust.