after so many years....
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it has been 4 years since she broke off with me.. happened that i saw her this morning on my way to work but i didnt approach her anyway.... in fact, we have lost contact ever since we broke off...
i must admit that she has always been in my heart all these years... and many times, i did wonder if i should start contacting her... i juz keep telling myself that she will probably be happier and better off without me around...
but after seeing her this morning, the thought of finding her back came back again.... im not sure if this is fate but seriously, im nt sure wat to do from here.... should i juz keep it as status quo or should i try to contact her again?
any advise or suggestion for me please? thanks....
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please find something else to do
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move on, chances is, she had forgotten about you -
1) ask yrslf why did u break up
2) ask yrslf what have you done to improve yourself in the past 4 years
3) tell yourself, ther person you loved was from 4 years ago. she is not the same person today
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AA
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so ci qing. u go find out about her status before making any decision
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i've been in the same stituation before, only different thing is i saw her.....with her bf......BUT, i could see her happy, i saw that smile on her face, in which she nvr had before when she was with me.
till then, i knew, my departure was the best for her =)and that's what i meant by, i love you.
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ts go for it if u really want her.. i wanted to go for mine but some differences got me to no choice x.x
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Ts just go for it.. don let the opportunity slip by or u will regret more..
From some1 who just lost the girl who he loved to her ex bf..
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
please find something else to do
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but bear in mind, that her happiness should be all that you care for.
if being in a regretful state is so much better than her being with you, unhappily.why not?
i regretted alot abt (my) her, on the past.
it hurts me deep inside, really -.-
for a man to cry because of a girl, it just show how much that love weighs.
but... today, i know, those pain in my heart, worth it. if it's for her happiness =)seeing her with a smile on her face, beats everything that can make me happy.
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It is never too late you know... My current gf and I broke off in the past for a period of 2 years. During these 2 years we did not contact each other too, but now we are happily together again.
So, you just go for it, so that in the future you would never regret it. Who knows she is still single and available. Just go for it, you will stand a chance if u do something, you will not have a chance if you do nothing.
Good luck!!
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Originally posted by MaNyZeR:
It is never too late you know... My current gf and I broke off in the past for a period of 2 years. During these 2 years we did not contact each other too, but now we are happily together again.
So, you just go for it, so that in the future you would never regret it. Who knows she is still single and available. Just go for it, you will stand a chance if u do something, you will not have a chance if you do nothing.
Good luck!!
u remind me of the ex of the girl i like.. he's just like u MaNyZeR,nv contact her for the 2 yrs.. now, they are happily tgt again=)
As for TS, haiz.. do think about whether there is a guy who loves her or not before u make a move yeah? u might ruin her their happiness by stepping in, this is something i forgot to mention in my previous post
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Originally posted by triples3c:
it has been 4 years since she broke off with me.. happened that i saw her this morning on my way to work but i didnt approach her anyway.... in fact, we have lost contact ever since we broke off...
i must admit that she has always been in my heart all these years... and many times, i did wonder if i should start contacting her... i juz keep telling myself that she will probably be happier and better off without me around...
but after seeing her this morning, the thought of finding her back came back again.... im not sure if this is fate but seriously, im nt sure wat to do from here.... should i juz keep it as status quo or should i try to contact her again?
any advise or suggestion for me please? thanks....
just get her back, fuck her already than dump her again
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Originally posted by limpper:
i've been in the same stituation before, only different thing is i saw her.....with her bf......BUT, i could see her happy, i saw that smile on her face, in which she nvr had before when she was with me.
till then, i knew, my departure was the best for her =)and that's what i meant by, i love you.
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A broken vase will always have cracks.
Keep status quo.
Ifs its gone, its gone.
Move on bah, find someone else.
No point liao.
Good for u. Good for her too.
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Originally posted by seotiblizzard:
A broken vase will always have cracks.
Keep status quo.
Ifs its gone, its gone.
Move on bah, find someone else.
No point liao.
Good for u. Good for her too.
totally agreed.. the past memories of breaking up would still be there o.o...
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you want more heartaches and heartbreaks?
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Same shoes as you . But i can let it go But i still wondering should i get her back or just leave it alone ... hard to make up my mind
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Originally posted by Komon:
Same shoes as you . But i can let it go But i still wondering should i get her back or just leave it alone ... hard to make up my mind
u can get her back.. chances are that you wil succeed..
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Originally posted by Babelfish:
u can get her back.. chances are that you wil succeed..
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
hi, babel.hi fantagf.. lol
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I telling you now this is your chance to get back so.. GO FOR IT!!
if not forget it > <!
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hi all,
thanks for your advice....
after thinking thru these few days, i have decided to give it a try... if i nv try, i will nv know... even if i failed, at least i have got an answer & i will have no regrets.... I also wana share this poem...
Tomorrow Never Comes
By Norma MarekIf I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly, and pray the Lord your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time that I'd see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss, and call you back for just one more.
If I knew it would be the last time I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would tape each word and action, and play them back throughout my days
If I knew it would be the last time, I would spare an extra minute or two,
To stop and say "I love you," instead of assuming you know I do.
So, just in case tomorrow never comes, and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you, and I hope we never will forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight.
So, if you're waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes, you'll surely regret the day
That you didn't take that extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss,
And you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today, and whisper in their ear,
That you love them very much, and you'll always hold them dear.
Take time to say "I'm sorry," "Please forgive me," "thank you" or "it's okay".
And if tomorrow never comes, you'll have no regrets about today. -
triples3c, so did you managed to contact her?
what happened next?