Nope... some guys prefer chubby girls, and i am one of them. I think that chubby girls looks cute. I dont really like girls that are too fat or too thin.. chubby would be the best for me. Abit fleshy and yet not to fleshy.
Unless u met all the guys in the world, it would be silly to say that all guys dun like fat gals.
So why do u care if most guys dun like fat gal?Just aim for those that like fat gals.
If you are fat urself, would u like a fat guy? If u want to be with guy that go for outer beauty, then dun complain him being shallow. Either u change urself or go for those that would love you the way u are.
But please dun be a double standard by expecting someone else to be something which u are not.
why don't chinese girls like indian guys
why don't indian girls like chinese guys
if you're going to tell me that there are some such cases, then you have answered your question
Originally posted by lover~~:i dont understand why most of the guys cant accept gals who r fat or chubby?? it's not that they wanted way, i mean they also would like to slim down, but everybody got their own problems.. Why guys cant accept the inner beauty of chubby gals?? And sometimes friends around me, if they see a chubby gal hanging out with a handsome guy, holding hands or wat, the way they look at them is like "how can it be??" "How can that guy like that fat woman?" "Muz be that gal is rich so that guy willing to accpet her!" Why ppl have to use this kind thought?? I really doesnt understand~~
May be anyone of u know??
Hmm I think most men are looking for sexual relationship in having girlfriend which eventually become their wife and for that reason you also know that being fat is not a very sexy thing. So that's the reason I guess most men avoid fat or ugly girls.
As for the inner beauty part.....hell most people are not able to tell right away what's inside other people's hearts. So to them all other people are primarily judged by mere outer physical appearance and social status. To put into simple words: Most people are narrow minded and shallow. Most men are being deceived by their senses and the lack of it. That's why the worship of physical attractiveness.
Originally posted by cassie:Yikes! Now I’m seriously wondering what my flaw(s) is(are)!!!
Maybe you're too perfect and guys find that intimidating? :P
The thing about inner beauty is that it takes time for people to see it..
Hypothetically, if I were to put Girl A who is a hot babe (Elisha Cuthbert kinda hot) and Girl B who's lacking in the exterior aspect but a wonderful person... Naturally, people would be attracted to Girl A first...
It takes roughly 7 seconds for one to form a first impression of somebody, but it takes weeks, months and years for one to have an understanding of the other... See the point now?
Besides, it's just in our nature to go for the 'most perfect one'... We're animals.. and that's animalistic
But it also takes from a few days to a few years to realize that that pretty girl you hang out with is an ugly witch deep inside. lol. Detached was right. It takes time to see and realize inner beauty just as it takes time to see the ugliness inside
Only God sees through the heart all the time afterall.
Sooner or later physical attraction will fade and it will boil down to character match. Really.
There are many pretty attractive girls who are not that attractive anymore once they are engaged in conversation. Lacking grace and brain. And there are some ladies out there who may not look that hot at first but with a poise of a royalty and a brain power to match her grace that leave you with a deep impression.
And I strongly disagree that human are to be regarded as just another animal.
Since there are people whose behavior is worse than animal. It's an insult to the animal kingdom to regard those people as animal. The animal kingdom feels strongly objected with being equated with the humankind. Believe me. They almost went to court with their objection. I convinced them otherwise that perhaps the humankind needs another chance to redeem itself to be worthy to be regarded at the very least to be on par with the animal kingdom, their kindship.
Originally posted by Miracles&Prophecies:
Hmm I think most men are looking for sexual relationship in having girlfriend which eventually become their wife and for that reason you also know that being fat is not a very sexy thing. So that's the reason I guess most men avoid fat or ugly girls.As for the inner beauty part.....hell most people are not able to tell right away what's inside other people's hearts. So to them all other people are primarily judged by mere outer physical appearance and social status. To put into simple words: Most people are narrow minded and shallow. Most men are being deceived by their senses and the lack of it. That's why the worship of physical attractiveness.
i tell you if sex is the only concern, no need marry, just visit prostitute regularly, or having a mistress,
Having a good marriage, you must appreciate each other deep inside.THe prime concern should ,are you getting along well, can you talk everything to her?
And for the sake of sustain a good marriage, yes, you need find someone think like you
Originally posted by Miracles&Prophecies:But it also takes from a few days to a few years to realize that that pretty girl you hang out with is an ugly witch deep inside. lol. Detached was right. It takes time to see and realize inner beauty just as it takes time to see the ugliness inside
Only God sees through the heart all the time afterall.
Sooner or later physical attraction will fade and it will boil down to character match. Really.
There are many pretty attractive girls who are not that attractive anymore once they are engaged in conversation. Lacking grace and brain. And there are some ladies out there who may not look that hot at first but with a poise of a royalty and a brain power to match her grace that leave you with a deep impression.
And I strongly disagree that human are to be regarded as just another animal.
Since there are people whose behavior is worse than animal. It's an insult to the animal kingdom to regard those people as animal. The animal kingdom feels strongly objected with being equated with the humankind. Believe me. They almost went to court with their objection. I convinced them otherwise that perhaps the humankind needs another chance to redeem itself to be worthy to be regarded at the very least to be on par with the animal kingdom, their kindship.a
agree
aiyo...
fat ger got inner beauty....
slim ger oso can have inner beauty...
if give u choose, which will u take?
Originally posted by EarlNeo:aiyo...
fat ger got inner beauty....
slim ger oso can have inner beauty...
if give u choose, which will u take?
or hot girl is pampered, hard to find any of them with good personality.
God won't put all the eggs in one basket
Originally posted by rokkie:
or hot girl is pampered, hard to find any of them with good personality.God won't put all the eggs in one basket
i know girls who are pretty inside and outside
how?
Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:i know girls who are pretty inside and outside
how?
is world is so big, exception is allowed
so the sentence that God won't put all eggs in one basket is wrong
besides, god doesnt exist.
Originally posted by Daisuke-kun:so the sentence that God won't put all eggs in one basket is wrong
besides, god doesnt exist.
i am not saying god exist, i am just apply the name of god,
you can name anything that can be universally true, i believe it's very rare.
So you cannot deny the correctness of it, because there are exception, there always have exception, there are some guys pregnant, how? you can explain that?>
hot girl are choosy, they want good looking guys, with good money, and good sex,
Hmmm, some do, some don't. Not all like $$$ of guys.
Originally posted by Bak la va:Hmmm, some do, some don't. Not all like $$$ of guys.
money it's only one criteria on their list, money is the only thing can sustain their qualify life, many make up, classy dress,
you never saw a chio bu accompany garbage man
just imagine...you fucking a fat girl...the fats jumping while pounding....omg tats fucking sick....and wads more fat women are heavy can't do much during sex...=) tats why guys go for slimmer girls instead of fat girls...
fat gal got big boob, lean girl got small boob,
And plus why you do not go to fuck a slim geylang gal right away
lolx? i prefer slim girl than fat girl?, but then my fren say this "fat girl grow the breasts veri fast,while slim girl sibei slow
boobs consist of only fats, that's why slim girl cannot grow big boob
Originally posted by rokkie:boobs consist of only fats, that's why slim girl cannot grow big boob
for my case..i prefer busty girls
Not all guys are jerks, but it's because of those jerks, all guys appear to be bad. Inner beauty is something they should really see for themselves. Not by knowing it through others. Fat or Slim, Handsome or Ugly, You're going to perish one day, lol. Live life as it is.