Woman the Walking Contradiction
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depends ba.
i have many friends who married their best friends and they work out pretty well.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Summary:
Men are not as smart as women.
Really.
I totally agree!
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I think most guys from SG fulfill this requirement. Correct me if I'm wrong. We are not in Rwanda right?
Not. Too many guys here in singapore HAS their mothers dressing them.
I think most of the time guys try to be like that, but then there are always posuers. I got to hear a story about one recently that was very much considered a "man who got no pride". Basically he asked for all the money he spent on his ex back after a breakup. He even force the lady to go to the atm to withdraw every bit of cash she had and left her penniless on the street. Last year, I was told by the same lady that he is a fine young gentleman. So to the guys out there who got no pride, my word to you is, "Save the act for the nymphos who just care if you have a big dick." That is definitely no male chivarly.
I think u mistook my meaning of chauvinistic for something else. Mine simply meant proud to be a man, to be proud to be able to do what a man can do and be sure of it.
Singapore has one of the lowest rates of unemployment in asia. I tend to believe that if you are willing to work in SG, you cannot go jobless. So why are the ladies still looking?
With respect to this, you must consider the current economy and cost of inflation.
I'm an average drone, so where are the thrifty ladies?
Keep looking. You just havent found them.
Again, easier said than done.
Practice. Keeping a planner helps.
I think I said it before, skills comes with practice. That does not mean that you are a over zealous ape with raging hormones when you are out of the bedroom. Tell me who is? I'll alert the zoo.
Not neccessary practice. She could jolly well enjoy herself without you. Its the elements of how you can bring her fully out to enjoy the moment and the outpouring of emotions. Ever wonder why some girls cry during the act itself even though they're enjoying it?
Mind games? ok, maybe this point is a bit rusty. But In my point of view, you dun treat your woman good when you play mind games with her.
Consevative views. Its not mind games but rather a game of catch. Would you play if you're the one being chased forever?
Are you or have you been married? You would wish women would understand what you just said about "two different subjects". They would not ask you funny questions then.
The main thing IS they all want to hear what they want to hear. But deep in you, you know you can have just as much love for your parents as to that for her.
I dun know. Can you get a great bod with just thursday night? Let me know the routine, the last time I had a great bod, I was burning 12 hours in the gym weekly.
Controlled diet + frequent exercising like walking up stairs, getting off buses two stops earlier to walk to your destinations can help. Not to mention you can over tired your body if gyming without the correct form.
That's security you are talking about. But the woman actually wants to be independant and live her own life here, without you! So what are you doing in the picture?
Thats where you are wrong. The security im talking about is like you're the grassland with fences around you. The girl is the sheep roaming in the grassland.. free to do whatever it likes and still protected to a certain extend. Anyway, I believe in having my own independent life and "inviting" the girl to have a taste of my life by joining me on my activities such as shopping for groceries.
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why do you bother about what they want, just do what u want
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Originally posted by parn:
You need to realise that there are many types of woman out there. And I can tell you there are probably enough retarded women out there for those retarded men.If you always asked the same stupid question to the women that you've met or known, then of course you would only end up receiving stupid answers from them.
I don't need to ask you I already know those women that you have met or known aren't very smart or sensible types. And do note that doing well in their educations/careers doesn't means they are smart and sensible. One good example would be referenced to MPs and Politicians and Businesswomen and Educators.
I can tell you I will be with a man because I like him. There's no such things as what do you look for in a man, except if you want to ask such question to add insult to humilation to the retarded being that you are conversing actually with. Do you enjoy conversing with a retard?
Liking someone is alot like shopping actually. You can be shopping for a certain item, but they comes in different brands and packaging and prices. Ultimately you will end up buying the one that you really liked, of course there is no convincing explainations behind the choice why you ended up buying this one instead of the others. That is because you have made a subjective choice.
The keyword to all this should be "The entire package", you like something or someone is not because you are able to list out enough reasons to like that item or person. It is because you like that item or person based on the overall package that combines all the good and bad which happens to stir up sufficient comfortable and desirable emotions in you to trigger your heart to tell your brain that "This is the one I want".
I'm not surprised that guys like yourself are constantly seeking for the reasons behind attractions. But this is only because you all don't really have your own personalities or maybe you despised your own true real personalities? Guys who can change themselves by self-realisation are good, but most guys ended up as fakers who need to fake themselves to the death in order to attract the girl that they like. But seriously, I am sure even you guys are unable to reply why you preferred this girl instead of another.
And do you know why you are not able to reply this question? That is because the question itself is SUBJECTIVE! So there is no right or wrong answers to it, only got retarded question produces retarded answers from subjectively retarded people.
My opinions are not debatable as I am absolute. If you cannot understand my post, then I can tell you this post will be here long enough for you to understand it.
Ahh....finally this little discussion here caught your eye. I was wondering how come my favourite women representative is not here. Please take this as a compliment. And no, I'm not trying to be nice here.
I not sure about other guys. But generally, a MAN knows what he wants. Anyone else would be considered as frills and thrills.
Let me tell you what I want in a woman.
1) I like a nice butt. Fleshy and tight. Pouting and ready.
2) A nice tear drop shape for breast is always very attractive to me. Anything beyond a C cup is too much.
3) I like long hair. Straight or big curls, I like them both.
4) I like a slim waist, anything from 23-28 is acceptable.
5) Clear flawless skin is a plus regardless of whether she is tanned or fair. It's the smoothness that counts.
6) A woman who enjoys a roll in the hay with ME makes my day, any day.
7) A woman with who can hold long conversations into the night today and still makes me want to conversate more tomorrow night.
8) A romantic woman who can appreciate romance as it comes, surprise or sunrise.
9) A loyal woman who sticks to her mate through thick and thin.
10) A woman whom I can afford to upkeep her whims and fancy.
Notice there are no buts in my wants? That I have to say is the attribute of a man. WE know what we want. It's just the getting them that is difficult.
I'm not seeking for the reason behind attraction. I know there are none. It's just like you are asking me why do I like a nice butt but not gigantic breasts. I have no answer to that. My question is really why do woman contradict their own wants?
It's just like woman wants to be equals as man, but they would not give up labelling a man ungentlemanly should he not open the door for a lady. Can a man say that a lady is unlady like should she not open the door for a man? That would be so unheard of. Woman has already more or less achieve equality in the working environment and at home. But most are still holding on to their petticoats crying "Man is a brute". So how do we achieve equality should this contradiction go on?
Dun worry about me understanding your post. I believe it is definitely within my humble capability to read it, it is in simple english after all.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Summary:
Men are not as smart as women.
Really.
That's because woman dun think like man.
Really actually.
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Originally posted by charlize:
Summary:
Men are not as smart as women.
Really.
lizzy is so smart.and with that, we can close this thread
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Did I just brought the wrath of all the women in sgforums onto me?
*sigh* I just love women on top.
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Originally posted by DownAndOut:
I think most guys from SG fulfill this requirement. Correct me if I'm wrong. We are not in Rwanda right?
Not. Too many guys here in singapore HAS their mothers dressing them.
I think most of the time guys try to be like that, but then there are always posuers. I got to hear a story about one recently that was very much considered a "man who got no pride". Basically he asked for all the money he spent on his ex back after a breakup. He even force the lady to go to the atm to withdraw every bit of cash she had and left her penniless on the street. Last year, I was told by the same lady that he is a fine young gentleman. So to the guys out there who got no pride, my word to you is, "Save the act for the nymphos who just care if you have a big dick." That is definitely no male chivarly.
I think u mistook my meaning of chauvinistic for something else. Mine simply meant proud to be a man, to be proud to be able to do what a man can do and be sure of it.
Singapore has one of the lowest rates of unemployment in asia. I tend to believe that if you are willing to work in SG, you cannot go jobless. So why are the ladies still looking?
With respect to this, you must consider the current economy and cost of inflation.
I'm an average drone, so where are the thrifty ladies?
Keep looking. You just havent found them.
Again, easier said than done.
Practice. Keeping a planner helps.
I think I said it before, skills comes with practice. That does not mean that you are a over zealous ape with raging hormones when you are out of the bedroom. Tell me who is? I'll alert the zoo.
Not neccessary practice. She could jolly well enjoy herself without you. Its the elements of how you can bring her fully out to enjoy the moment and the outpouring of emotions. Ever wonder why some girls cry during the act itself even though they're enjoying it?
Mind games? ok, maybe this point is a bit rusty. But In my point of view, you dun treat your woman good when you play mind games with her.
Consevative views. Its not mind games but rather a game of catch. Would you play if you're the one being chased forever?
Are you or have you been married? You would wish women would understand what you just said about "two different subjects". They would not ask you funny questions then.
The main thing IS they all want to hear what they want to hear. But deep in you, you know you can have just as much love for your parents as to that for her.
I dun know. Can you get a great bod with just thursday night? Let me know the routine, the last time I had a great bod, I was burning 12 hours in the gym weekly.
Controlled diet + frequent exercising like walking up stairs, getting off buses two stops earlier to walk to your destinations can help. Not to mention you can over tired your body if gyming without the correct form.
That's security you are talking about. But the woman actually wants to be independant and live her own life here, without you! So what are you doing in the picture?
Thats where you are wrong. The security im talking about is like you're the grassland with fences around you. The girl is the sheep roaming in the grassland.. free to do whatever it likes and still protected to a certain extend. Anyway, I believe in having my own independent life and "inviting" the girl to have a taste of my life by joining me on my activities such as shopping for groceries.
In short, most of those guys that you talked about are boys. I'm talking about MAN here.
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Originally posted by Noahtay:
Can some guys other than DownAndOut talk more on this? I'm getting abit old for this shit.
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callan for what i think not everything you say is right or wrong as there is girls n women know what they want as they had been thr those hard times so they know what they want but there is still have stubborn pple who keep trying to bang thier head on the wall wether or not what their friends tell them ..... continue to find those jerks that what i think n being thr ....
that is why still have pple married happily after n those ..... still looking
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i have a feeling somebody has been meeting the wrong girls haha
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Originally posted by tinuviel07:
i have a feeling somebody has been meeting the wrong girls haha
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Originally posted by Noahtay:
i dont mean you wor... you met me.. means you are doing fine
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Originally posted by tinuviel07:
i have a feeling somebody has been meeting the wrong girls haha
There is no such thing as wrong girls.
Only blur men.
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Originally posted by charlize:
There is no such thing as wrong girls.
Only blur men.
blur in love
dun everyone is blinded or blur in love worst is lust lol
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Originally posted by charlize:
There is no such thing as wrong girls.
Only blur men.
well men are only blur with certain parts of the anatomy... mainly the northern regions
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Originally posted by Noahtay:
blur in love
dun everyone is blinded or blur in love worst is lust lol
Love is blind.
But marriage will open your eyes.
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Originally posted by tinuviel07:
i have a feeling somebody has been meeting the wrong girls haha
You want to help make it right?
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Originally posted by Callan:
You want to help make it right?
nah i'll leave tt to da jie..
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Originally posted by tinuviel07:
nah i'll leave tt to da jie..
Which one?
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Originally posted by charlize:
Love is blind.
But marriage will open your eyes.
marriage will not happen when there is no love
love is not blind. love is get to know each others need n support each other and ect ect
but
marriage can also happen when there is no love where pple buy marriage but it hardly seem to work
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Originally posted by Callan:
Which one?
would it be your preference or theirs?
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don't know why people would bother with marriage unless they wan to stake their claim, apply for HDB etc...