Why do people state themselves as 'it's complicated'....
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Why do some people state themselves as 'it's complicated' in their profiles on Facebook or Friendster even though they are still in a pretty healthy relationship with their Bfs/ Gfs?
I mean it's like, wouldn't their bfs/ gfs question them if they see that?
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this is really agonizing, i can tell
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maybe because they patch up, break, patch up, break, patch up, break then patch up again. see that's complicated.
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aiyah, some are just trying to be funny la..
no big deal one..
y think so much..
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Originally posted by bitteroldman:
Why do some people state themselves as 'it's complicated' in their profiles on Facebook or Friendster even though they are still in a pretty healthy relationship with their Bfs/ Gfs?
I mean it's like, wouldn't their bfs/ gfs question them if they see that?
their love have ups and downs lor..."pretty" to u lor...
maybe act in front of u and other friends, then when they 2 alone together, got problems...
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yeah some are trying to be funny i guess.
but on the otherhand i could be also thinking to much...:D
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It's really complicated...
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means got bf/gf but no feeling liao
so put complicated to indicate he/she is attached
but in fact waiting for better person to appear
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or maybe got third party but the third pary fail, but then the heart itchy liao ...
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you know what chocochips,
i wished what u've replied will really happen...
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sometimes hor
those that put its complicated one
70% are fake lo
just wan to act ke lian
or they are just plain cheap
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
sometimes hor
those that put its complicated one
70% are fake lo
just wan to act ke lian
or they are just plain cheap
erm.. choco like either 过�人 or 怨气 very deep sia..
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because it is really complicated?
I also put complicated what! That's because I'm going through a divorce but I'm still in the seperation pharse...but I'm allow to date but cannot re-marry yet. And then there is the problem about actually declaring this...there is no Seperated on friendster what! so cannot blame me! IT IS REALLY VERY COMPLICATED!
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Originally posted by Callan:
because it is really complicated?
I also put complicated what! That's because I'm going through a divorce but I'm still in the seperation pharse...but I'm allow to date but cannot re-marry yet. And then there is the problem about actually declaring this...there is no Seperated on friendster what! so cannot blame me! IT IS REALLY VERY COMPLICATED!
*pats u on the back :D
alright. the thing is, i actually like a girl who's now in a 'it's complicated situation' (which i'm not how complicated it is).
she mentions that she has a bf, but doesnt really talk about him much. actually she's a colleague. we get along quite well at work.
sometimes we exchange smses as if like we're like dating each other like that, she'd text me something like 'i feel like having chocolates now all of a sudden...why dont u buy me some tomorrow ok?' or she would tell me how tired she felt after her gym sessions. she would usually initiate the smses first.
i mean, normal colleagues don't really message things like that to each other right? or am i just thinking too much?
...and so, should i take any actions?
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Originally posted by cuddles:
erm.. choco like either 过�人 or 怨气 very deep sia..
�啦! i where gotch simi 怨气!
and i oso not simi 过�人 hor
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these kind of thing how to depend on Friendster status, lol
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Originally posted by bitteroldman:
*pats u on the back :D
alright. the thing is, i actually like a girl who's now in a 'it's complicated situation' (which i'm not how complicated it is).
she mentions that she has a bf, but doesnt really talk about him much. actually she's a colleague. we get along quite well at work.
sometimes we exchange smses as if like we're like dating each other like that, she'd text me something like 'i feel like having chocolates now all of a sudden...why dont u buy me some tomorrow ok?' or she would tell me how tired she felt after her gym sessions. she would usually initiate the smses first.
i mean, normal colleagues don't really message things like that to each other right? or am i just thinking too much?
...and so, should i take any actions?
what if she's oni leading u on?to take all the advantage she can of u
then when u're really in love with her and wan to make her ur gf
"sorry but i oni treat u as a very very good fren, and i love my bf very much"
like that then how?
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its complicated means you are in a r/s and u still wanna flirt arnd.. thats all =)
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Originally posted by Miss Tiny:
maybe because they patch up, break, patch up, break, patch up, break then patch up again. see that's complicated.
yea...
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Originally posted by bitteroldman:
*pats u on the back :D
alright. the thing is, i actually like a girl who's now in a 'it's complicated situation' (which i'm not how complicated it is).
she mentions that she has a bf, but doesnt really talk about him much. actually she's a colleague. we get along quite well at work.
sometimes we exchange smses as if like we're like dating each other like that, she'd text me something like 'i feel like having chocolates now all of a sudden...why dont u buy me some tomorrow ok?' or she would tell me how tired she felt after her gym sessions. she would usually initiate the smses first.
i mean, normal colleagues don't really message things like that to each other right? or am i just thinking too much?
...and so, should i take any actions?
Why not you ask her about it and stop guessing? All it takes is a little courage, problems solved. At least you cannot be blamed for leading her on when you are actually the one doing the confrontation.
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
what if she's oni leading u on?to take all the advantage she can of u
then when u're really in love with her and wan to make her ur gf
"sorry but i oni treat u as a very very good fren, and i love my bf very much"
like that then how?
You still never answered his question leh.. He is asking if he should take any action. You are just throwing him more question to think about. Be counsellor must be more professional mah.
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i think you should also put "it's complicated" and make sure she notices it!
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Originally posted by Callan:
You still never answered his question leh.. He is asking if he should take any action. You are just throwing him more question to think about. Be counsellor must be more professional mah.
this kind how to give him a definite answer
if i say take action then the above scenario took place then how
if i say dun take action but the girl really likes him then how
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
this kind how to give him a definite answer
if i say take action then the above scenario took place then how
if i say dun take action but the girl really likes him then how
Well, you are thinking the same as him. That's why he's not moving! At least tell him to forget about it and migrate to Africa to avoid the girl. that's doing something.
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It prolly means they are not sure whether they are (still) together or not in the first place.