happy to be single ?
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Yet, there are some who have too much pride to admit that they made mistakes, confess, and reflect.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
when i'm single, something's missing in my heart.
when i'm not single, something's missing in my blood stream.
then i figured it all out, inbetween is the way to go.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Yet, there are some who have too much pride to admit that they made mistakes, confess, and reflect.I like to quote....quote myself actually,
"Pride is only useful in short moments in life, it can never save your life."
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Let me quote this from the movie "Now and Then":
"As we grow older, it becomes difficult to just believe. It's not that we don't want to, but too much has happened that we just cant."
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Let me quote this from the movie "Now and Then":
"As we grow older, it becomes difficult to just believe. It's not that we don't want to, but too much has happened that we just cant."
Nice, but I'm fighting hard not to believe in what you are saying.
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Let me quote this from the movie "Now and Then":
"As we grow older, it becomes difficult to just believe. It's not that we don't want to, but too much has happened that we just cant."
That quote is too negative.I think it is important to keep believing, for it is hope that keeps us going.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
That quote is too negative.I think it is important to keep believing, for it is hope that keeps us going.
This I totally agree. But you do sound abit young to fully understand the nature of it's truth.
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Something positive then:
If we wait for the moment when everything, absolutely everything is ready, we shall never begin - Ivan Turgenev
OR
The minute you start talking about what you're going to do if you lose, you have lost - George Shultz
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Originally posted by Callan:
This I totally agree. But you do sound abit young to fully understand the nature of it's truth.
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Something positive then:
If we wait for the moment when everything, absolutely everything is ready, we shall never begin - Ivan Turgenev
OR
The minute you start talking about what you're going to do if you lose, you have lost - George Shultz
For the first quote:There can never be a moment when absolutely everything is ready.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
For the first quote:There can never be a moment when absolutely everything is ready.
Well, there are ppl who think that way.
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tsk.
it means if making love is lethal and if one long drag down the airway can turn a rainbow full of heart into a violent storm of nuisance, then there’s nothing left know except knowing when to engage and unplug. offer what you can give, steal what you can get.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
tsk.
it means if making love is lethal and if one long drag down the airway can turn a rainbow full of heart into a violent storm of nuisance, then there’s nothing left know except knowing when to engage and unplug. offer what you can give, steal what you can get.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
tsk.
it means if making love is lethal and if one long drag down the airway can turn a rainbow full of heart into a violent storm of nuisance, then there’s nothing left know except knowing when to engage and unplug. offer what you can give, steal what you can get.
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Enlighten me, please.I'm only assuming that you are quite young, but I'm not refering to your age. Experience in r/s is what I'm pointing to exactly. It gets a whole lot harder with bad experiences and environmental factors to truly believe that perfect love can still happen to you. Some will just submit themselves to fate, very much like Nata|ie over here. I still believe in fighting for what you want though.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
tsk.
it means if making love is lethal and if one long drag down the airway can turn a rainbow full of heart into a violent storm of nuisance, then there’s nothing left know except knowing when to engage and unplug. offer what you can give, steal what you can get.
To put in simply, hit and let go?
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
That's profound.no it is not. there's a reason we invented fast cars, replacement therapy and divan acts so everyone's vaguely happy!
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Originally posted by Callan:
I'm only assuming that you are quite young, but I'm not refering to your age. Experience in r/s is what I'm pointing to exactly. It gets a whole lot harder with bad experiences and environmental factors to truly believe that perfect love can still happen to you. Some will just submit themselves to fate, very much like Nata|ie over here. I still believe in fighting for what you want though.
Indeed. Im short of experience in r/s
But I think it is important to not let the past affect the future cos your past failed attempts do not determine your future.
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Originally posted by Callan:
I'm only assuming that you are quite young, but I'm not refering to your age. Experience in r/s is what I'm pointing to exactly. It gets a whole lot harder with bad experiences and environmental factors to truly believe that perfect love can still happen to you. Some will just submit themselves to fate, very much like Nata|ie over here. I still believe in fighting for what you want though.
Well, I do still hope (with the slightest possibility) of the perfect love happening to me. And of coz the part of fighting for what I want.However sometimes, the outcome/conclusion is not the expected.
So, when I've done all I can, and still nothing happens? I'll leave it to Fate.
:)
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Originally posted by cherrycola:
Indeed. Im short of experience in r/sBut I think it is important to not let the past affect the future cos your past failed attempts do not determine your future.
Again, I truly agree. But it does gets a lot harder in time.
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Well, I do still hope (with the slightest possibility) of the perfect love happening to me. And of coz the part of fighting for what I want.However sometimes, the outcome/conclusion is not the expected.
So, when I've done all I can, and still nothing happens? I'll leave it to Fate.
:)
I believe you need a lot more couragement to truly believe, becasue fate is seldom an option.
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Well, I do still hope (with the slightest possibility) of the perfect love happening to me. And of coz the part of fighting for what I want.However sometimes, the outcome/conclusion is not the expected.
So, when I've done all I can, and still nothing happens? I'll leave it to Fate.
:)
I guess at the end of the day, we just have to admit that there are many things in life which we cannot control, especially love.
I think the key is to manage your expectations.
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Everyday we face struggles, face decisions to be made. And everyday gets harder, because whatever one has experienced before, will affect how one make his/her decisions on situations that they face.
Thus you wake up a different person everyday, however it doesn't mean that your beliefs change.
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Originally posted by Callan:
Again, I truly agree. But it does gets a lot harder in time.
When it gets harder, come back here to be reminded and motivated
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Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.
:)