happy to be single ?
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Originally posted by thehappybunny:
no wonder gas gas so round
can link relationships to food
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but seriously has anyone tried the mega mac? it looks evil
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Originally posted by GHoST_18:
ah gas is in shape ok!
round shape..
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Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
but seriously has anyone tried the mega mac? it looks evil
Nope. not me.... too evil for me. -
me lor... today tried mega mac lor... Ate at Hougang Mall...
so damn small and not filling at all
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Single is good.. No nedd to scare heartbreak..
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really?
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Originally posted by eagle:
me lor... today tried mega mac lor... Ate at Hougang Mall...
so damn small and not filling at all
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Ate at 1.15pm, now damn hungry...
Going out of house to search for food soon
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First of all, to all those who claims that it's great to be single I just want to ask if you have been attached before? No, I'm not for being attached or being single. But sometimes we just have to be more convincing in the way it is expressed. There has to be a comparision in our views.
From my point of view, (In case you are wondering, I'm 31 and yes I was attached, two-timed, in a fling, had ONS, did the chase, was chased after, in a three way r/s, dumped, dumped others, married and divorced before I wrote all these.) Being Single or not, is not very much about whether you are happy or not. You should be asking what you really want.
There are some of us who wants to be single, but that might be because you have been in so many bad r/s that being single is the way for you, but have you ever asked yourself why you were never happy in a r/s? It could be due to the fact that you never really knew what you wanted in a r/s and thus the many unhappy r/s. Many of us just go into a r/s of convinience, meaning we are in a r/s because there is someone we like and that someone happens to likes us too. But is what we like really what we want?
I believe that people can be happily attached, we just need to be attached to the right person. If you are looking for freedom, then find someone who can give you that while in a r/s. If you are looking for closesness, then go find someone who wants to stick like glue. There are no absolutes.
Of course there are some of us, who can only really be happy when we are single, then go ahead and be that, it is no crime, there is enough man and woman out there to help make the nation population grow, you can contribute through other ways.
The point at the end of the day is simple, you really just have to know what you want. But you can never know unless you either meditate for 10 years under a Bodhi tree or go through enough r/s to find out.
And yes, I'm single, but I'm still cannot be 100% sure I will be happier this way.
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Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
but seriously has anyone tried the mega mac? it looks evil
I tried it and the Mega Mac Spicy, and the Burger King Quad Burger. I dun know if it's evil, but they were all consumed by me.
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Depend on lifestyle
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ya.. Break up the pain is very painful.. While single, you no need to worry heartbroke no need to feek the pain..
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Originally posted by Callan:
I believe that people can be happily attached, we just need to be attached to the right person. If you are looking for freedom, then find someone who can give you that while in a r/s. If you are looking for closesness, then go find someone who wants to stick like glue. There are no absolutes.
I agree with you totally.Well, not everyone is able to do that. Be self-reflective or at least soul-searched.
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Originally posted by Callan:
I tried it and the Mega Mac Spicy, and the Burger King Quad Burger. I dun know if it's evil, but they were all consumed by me.
I shall try the BK Quad Burger one day
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Originally posted by Sockhwa:
ya.. Break up the pain is very painful.. While single, you no need to worry heartbroke no need to feek the pain..
That I think is very much an escapist way of doing things. But what makes you think that being in a r/s cannot be happier than you are now? Maybe the next r/s will not result in a breakup for you?
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
I agree with you totally.Well, not everyone is able to do that. Be self-reflective or at least soul-searched.
It just takes 10 mins of clear thought and some courage to admit you were wrong somewhere.
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Originally posted by eagle:
I shall try the BK Quad Burger one day
I think I also want a quad core CPU chip one day
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Originally posted by Callan:
It just takes 10 mins of clear thought and some courage to admit you were wrong somewhere.
Let's say that not many ppl have the courage to admit that they were wrong somewhere?At least I feel that, unless you have been through shit, then you will sit down, reflect and admit and confess.
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Let's say that not many ppl have the courage to admit that they were wrong somewhere?At least I feel that, unless you have been through shit, then you will sit down, reflect and admit and confess.
I dun think I have been through shit. At least not enough. There are many cases that are worst than me. And they are worst than me because they did not choose to reflect sooner. And I dun want to be like them.
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Originally posted by Callan:
I dun think I have been through shit. At least not enough. There are many cases that are worst than me. And they are worst than me because they did not choose to reflect sooner. And I dun want to be like them.
I'm glad you did. :)Course, if more ppl have done that, then there are lesser sufferings and sadness around.
The definition of "Shit" is really based on perceptions and that guage we have inside.
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when i'm single, something's missing in my heart.
when i'm not single, something's missing in my blood stream.
then i figured it all out, inbetween is the way to go.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
when i'm single, something's missing in my heart.
when i'm not single, something's missing in my blood stream.
then i figured it all out, inbetween is the way to go.
I'm quite confused actually.
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Let's say that not many ppl have the courage to admit that they were wrong somewhere?At least I feel that, unless you have been through shit, then you will sit down, reflect and admit and confess.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
when i'm single, something's missing in my heart.
when i'm not single, something's missing in my blood stream.
then i figured it all out, inbetween is the way to go.
Inbetween will create imbalances...Single or not Single... �缘。。。。