Gentleman and issues
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Heya gentlemen and ladies... this is merely a discussion....
Ok, first of all, i am single too, but "if" you got a girlfriend and your gf is to go out with another guy alone... or maybe a few guy no girls... will u allow?
for me... i will allow but then i will be jealous definately... but then have to close one eye sometimes...Kinda mutual understanding and trust...
One more discussion is about the gentleman issue... Some are ,
- when take bus with ger, let ger have the inner seat
- Open door for ger
Of coz if you got more gentleman idea share it here...
But then got 1 issue.... Scenerio,
In a crowded place, e.g Bugis street, where the path only allow one person to walk at a time (u can't walk on her left / right)...
Some argue to walk infront of the ger to open up for the ger... while some argue to walk behind the ger to protect her from behind... So whats your view?
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How come got so many thing one?
Walk front or back also make u stressful..
If I am yr gal, will definitely dump u for another guy.
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offers to send her home everytime
pick her up if possible
pay for everything(haahaa)
when crossing road, use ur body protect her!!!
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
Heya gentlemen and ladies... this is merely a discussion....
Ok, first of all, i am single too, but "if" you got a girlfriend and your gf is to go out with another guy alone... or maybe a few guy no girls... will u allow?
for me... i will allow but then i will be jealous definately... but then have to close one eye sometimes...Kinda mutual understanding and trust...
One more discussion is about the gentleman issue... Some are ,
- when take bus with ger, let ger have the inner seat
- Open door for ger
Of coz if you got more gentleman idea share it here...
But then got 1 issue.... Scenerio,
In a crowded place, e.g Bugis street, where the path only allow one person to walk at a time (u can't walk on her left / right)...
Some argue to walk infront of the ger to open up for the ger... while some argue to walk behind the ger to protect her from behind... So whats your view?
1) yes let her hv inner seat2) unless u work as bus driver then can open door for her rite?
depends on wat type of gal is she.... better to protect her from behind...
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
Heya gentlemen and ladies... this is merely a discussion....
Ok, first of all, i am single too, but "if" you got a girlfriend and your gf is to go out with another guy alone... or maybe a few guy no girls... will u allow?
for me... i will allow but then i will be jealous definately... but then have to close one eye sometimes...Kinda mutual understanding and trust...
One more discussion is about the gentleman issue... Some are ,
- when take bus with ger, let ger have the inner seat
- Open door for ger
Of coz if you got more gentleman idea share it here...
But then got 1 issue.... Scenerio,
In a crowded place, e.g Bugis street, where the path only allow one person to walk at a time (u can't walk on her left / right)...
Some argue to walk infront of the ger to open up for the ger... while some argue to walk behind the ger to protect her from behind... So whats your view?
You can do nothing but to trust her with her guy friends...
Even if you know you are lieing to yourself that she is trustworthy...Hmm...
Open the door if you have the chance lor....
Singapore this place very odd sometime really got no chance to open one mah... -
in bugis street, it's wiser to let the lady navigate and u follow
if u walk in front, she may just stop to look at something or stray into shop then u will lose her ...
and i bet u will be the one panic -
Situational.
But I'd normally walk at the front to 'clear the path'....
Escalator.. if she's wearing a skirt.. always stand a step below her...
Bla bla bla.. the rest.. use some imagination, pal
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
Heya gentlemen and ladies... this is merely a discussion....
Ok, first of all, i am single too, but "if" you got a girlfriend and your gf is to go out with another guy alone... or maybe a few guy no girls... will u allow?
for me... i will allow but then i will be jealous definately... but then have to close one eye sometimes...Kinda mutual understanding and trust...
One more discussion is about the gentleman issue... Some are ,
- when take bus with ger, let ger have the inner seat
- Open door for ger
Of coz if you got more gentleman idea share it here...
But then got 1 issue.... Scenerio,
In a crowded place, e.g Bugis street, where the path only allow one person to walk at a time (u can't walk on her left / right)...
Some argue to walk infront of the ger to open up for the ger... while some argue to walk behind the ger to protect her from behind... So whats your view?
walk behind the girl to protect her. If wanna walk in front of the girl to clear path, then hold her hand at the same time. That way you will not lose her in the midst of the crowd and she will be connected to you through hand-holding as well.
as for the going out alone, erm I'm a ger.. so dunno how a gentleman will feel but even as a girl, to know your guy is going out with other girls is quite worrying too, and under what circumstances?
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- when take bus with ger, let ger have the inner seat
i bet to differ. I once raised someting related to this topic in sgforums and got flamed!
i said: i let my gf sit outside.
pple here said: you are super ungentleman!
i said: my gf is soooo scared of aircon and cold, if i were to let her shiver if she sit inside, wouldnt me be ungentleman too?
so, my gf always snatch the outside seat.
moral of the story? the lady always win and i am always ungentleman
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Originally posted by hiphop2009:
- when take bus with ger, let ger have the inner seat
i bet to differ. I once raised someting related to this topic in sgforums and got flamed!
i said: i let my gf sit outside.
pple here said: you are super ungentleman!
i said: my gf is soooo scared of aircon and cold, if i were to let her shiver if she sit inside, wouldnt me be ungentleman too?
so, my gf always snatch the outside seat.
moral of the story? the lady always win and i am always ungentleman
that is rather narrow minded of you to come up with this moral. So long as you do care for your partner and she is well taken care of, why bother about how people look at you?
being a gentleman is a way of being, not a trophy badge for you to wear and brag.
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Originally posted by deluded:
that is rather narrow minded of you to come up with this moral. So long as you do care for your partner and she is well taken care of, why bother about how people look at you?
being a gentleman is a way of being, not a trophy badge for you to wear and brag.
haha, chill man. i am just only bringing the "joking" side.
of course, i know being gentleman isnt just all actions and talks. It is the heart that counts. You can take care of her at this moment and the next moment you ask her get lost, then that is not gentleman anymore.
=)
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haha, cuz sitting inside kind of "protects" her? hmmmm... for going out i think its not trust or dont trust. You have to let her go out with male friends... You can also go out with female friends, then debate with her, why she can, you cannot, if she object :X
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I will allow, of course.
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
Heya gentlemen and ladies... this is merely a discussion....
Ok, first of all, i am single too, but "if" you got a girlfriend and your gf is to go out with another guy alone... or maybe a few guy no girls... will u allow?
for me... i will allow but then i will be jealous definately... but then have to close one eye sometimes...Kinda mutual understanding and trust...
One more discussion is about the gentleman issue... Some are ,
- when take bus with ger, let ger have the inner seat
- Open door for ger
Of coz if you got more gentleman idea share it here...
But then got 1 issue.... Scenerio,
In a crowded place, e.g Bugis street, where the path only allow one person to walk at a time (u can't walk on her left / right)...
Some argue to walk infront of the ger to open up for the ger... while some argue to walk behind the ger to protect her from behind... So whats your view?
are you a secondary student? coz i had this talk a while ago.. for social etiquette :)
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Originally posted by CannyOng:
How come got so many thing one?
Walk front or back also make u stressful..
If I am yr gal, will definitely dump u for another guy.
haha thz i am glad that u dump me for that !Just a Discussion no harm, lol relax..
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I brought up this topic about the Ger going out with guy alone, vice versa is because of FM 933 discuss lol...
generation 90 ha i not secondary student (secert) lol... i am old~
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Originally posted by Pippinpro:
I brought up this topic about the Ger going out with guy alone, vice versa is because of FM 933 discuss lol...
generation 90 ha i not secondary student (secert) lol... i am old~
how old then?