Look, why not you discuss this with your parents. Afterall they are your closest kin. Discuss with them and they can let you know how much and how far they can go for you and what are the various options. You are only so young, don't tell me you want to make all the plans and let your parents know. Why not let them know how you really feel and maybe you all could come up with a solution where you can get what you want without burdening them too much.
Dearie, we all have our lives.
We can only point you in the right directions, its up to you to make yoru life happen the way you wanted.
You want to leave Singapore. Most of us anyway do, or have done it or is doing it.
At the moment, none of us can bring you along, since you have not contributed to us or to the society.
And no matter how you look at it. You have to be the one that makes it work. I am sure you wouldnt want us messing in your affairs which you cannot expect.
If you so want to be out of the country. Take a break, take a cruise, take a bus across the causeway and you will realise you can see things differently
Thats why I like motorcycle touring. When you save enough or earn enough $$$, try getting a licence, get your own bike and go at least a petrol and makan session with fellow bikers and you might feel the difference.
Skills and education is different.
You can study to be a surgeon, but that does not make you a surgeon till you are able to cut into someone and stitch that person up.
Skills are different from knowledge.
Like me, I can drink wine, I can smell wine, but that does not make me a wine expert.
am i making sense?
Originally posted by Sadboy777:btw how did you get cancer?and are you afraid of dying?
Sigh..... I dont wish to discuss my cancer issue again. should I be afraid?
In all fairness, please do not be too definite about what you want or your cannot do.
I did not want cancer, and I cannot leave sg. But here I am making plans that is totally different from what I said when I was hale and healthy.
So please, the world cannot change for you, but you can work and change your life.
When you keep typing cannot, you want and whatever you wish to do. When we do not see you making a effort to achieve what you want. We older ones do get skeptical.
Originally posted by Sadboy777:lets say if my grades were good to go poly?then where should i go? EXCEPT ITE thx
Poly studies can use parents cpf right?
Then pick one course that allows you to later to travel the world.
Nursing will garantee you a place in any hospital any part of the world.
Avionics means you can opt for a further study with Rolls Royce or any airport around the world, especially if you can still do aircraft/helicopter maintenance during your NS and then after that.
Marine Engineering means travels on ships....communications, pure engineering too.
Hotel managements, travel studies and some chemical engineering stuffs can bring you overseas too.
Originally posted by Sadboy777:lol i aint gay to do nursing but if my grades do not meet them then how?
Either you repeat or take a lessor course.
maybe something from ite on car servicing.
Oz, NZ, USA needs those kinds of employees.
But if you think ite is too beneath you. Then nothing we can do is there? Not unless you find a sugar mummy or a sugar daddy there is there?
Originally posted by Sadboy777:lol i aint gay to do nursing but if my grades do not meet them then how?
When you think its gay to do nursing. Then you really are not suitable for living in angmoh country or even thailand.
Gay culture is prominent in angmoh countries and thailand. Failure to accept those inclinations means you are better off staying in Singapore and Malaysia.
Originally posted by Sadboy777:who wanna go thai anywayz i dont want to waste one more year…time is preciousi do not want to go lesser course either becaz hard to get employed
Did you not read what I posted above!!!!!
Wants and whatever does not correspond to employment whatever!
*auntie is kinda wasted here with too high a drunk....whatever....going to finish that other 1/2 of a bottle of wine......*
Originally posted by Sadboy777:are you married?
Cough........
No, I will not answer that.
Enough toyboys or boy mistresses......so you will never be considered!
Originally posted by Sadboy777:can show a picture of urself?
For what? You think this is a dating forum?
Originally posted by Sadboy777:i am a guy why would i want date another guy-.- anywayz i have differnt plans…i really wanna go oz
i migrate to oz when i was nearly 40. like u, i was from very humble beginning and i couldnt afford overseas education. so i did full time work and study part-time for my adv diploma, degree and master in SG for nearly 8 years.
if i can do it, i dont see why u cant. alot of persistency, hardworks and stamina. u will reach there everntually.
Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
For what? You think this is a dating forum?
I could be wrong, VK, but I reckon you're being punk'd.
Originally posted by Sadboy777:i am a guy why would i want date another guy-.- anywayz i have differnt plans…i really wanna go oz
Why do you want to come to Australia? If you stop giving bullshit stories and excuses and get down to the point, you might be able to reach a wrokable answer.
Originally posted by Gedanken:I could be wrong, VK, but I reckon you're being punk'd.
Well, if I am, I am.
Plenty of this kinda creeps around, and for them to crawl to Singaporeans Overseas from ChitChat....
World is different now. I remember me telling others how I hate my mother and how one of the senior officers, a old man with a even older parent, and his wife and kids........that no matter what happens, I am not to voice my disapproval or threatened to desert my own mother because he does not, will not or can not. He is a 50+ while I was a mere 18.
That scene stayed with me a long long time. Will never forget it. It made me look inside myself and realised what I am lacking. Am still lacking, but at least I made effort to clear out some ignorance.