put back my sex life on track

• Romeohorny

  11 Dec 11, 22:41

  I have been a hyper guy in sex since my early 20s and got married 3 yrs ago. sex life was good during the date and after the marriage untill we had a baby. things changed after that . From 4-5 times a week the sex life has been reduced to 1 time per week or 10 days. I do understand that she has been bz with the baby but i cant wait any longer or keep myself satisfied with my DIY.  I have been bz nowdays with porn and thinking of getting a fling with a pinoy neighbour. she seems to be enjoying my attention.

  I want to bring up this issue to my wife but worried she many think i am not understanding or i am being selfish...

  need help guys how do i get this to her to put back my sex life on track..

   

• Just_do_it_lah

  11 Dec 11, 22:46

  Give her this....

  

  

• Darkness_hacker99

  11 Dec 11, 22:48

  go for it~  you only live life once~

• FireIce

  12 Dec 11, 03:40

  wat happened since '05?

• Darkness_hacker99

  12 Dec 11, 13:07

  I kinda forgotten the password....

• laurence82

  12 Dec 11, 13:10

  i lost my password

   

• laurence82

  12 Dec 11, 13:12

  oops

• Rock^Star

  12 Dec 11, 13:18

  In your 30s now? 4-5 times a week.....u robocop or what sia......Be considerate towards your wife la.....got baby to take care of and this alone can greatly reduce her "appetite".

• troublemaker2005

  12 Dec 11, 14:06

  have you a dotter? maybe you can try with your dotter once she grow older

• I-like-flings(m)

  12 Dec 11, 15:53

  Originally posted by troublemaker2005:

  have you a dotter? maybe you can try with your dotter once she grow older

  
  u good.... i like ur idea...

• alize

  12 Dec 11, 16:03

  You should definitely talk to your wife but do it very carefully.

  Common problem of work/baby-obsessed wife in Singapore. If you're not careful, you'll be accused of not having consideration for your baby.

  http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=185736

  "Hor sie liao Bro! U & I are INDEED on the same boat! In fact, I'm beginning to wonder if we married the same wife You've just completely spelt out my agony! No sex for a few months, and then when I asked for it, she quoted one of her friends' hubby who've NOT had sex for 1 year, ever since the wife pregnant until the baby now 6-months plus liao. I tulan & said then u go & marry him for a sexless marriage lah! then she flew into a rage & said why must I always kick a big fuss about sex? If no sex will I die? If won't die then stop complaining! My jaws just dropped to the floor ... )"

• Jacky Woo

  12 Dec 11, 17:28

  why dun you just initiate the sex if you are horny

• Romeohorny

  13 Dec 11, 07:47

  sorry guys for late reply.... was bz with school n work

  RockStar: I find sex as a better way of releaving your stress from work, life and study( degree). Also i am a hyper. we used to have sex and sleep at nite and wake up ,  fast wash up and have sex again and get ready to work.. till date i always wake up with a bulge and standing.. I am trying to be considerate .. but how abt my wife being considerate to me?.....

  Troublemaker2005: I do not have one.. also not that cheap and disgusting.. Thanks for your advise..

  Ilikeflings(m): Thanks bro. Cheers

  alize: Thanks, I want to talk to her but dont want to rush her or feel guilty of ignoring me.

  Jacky: It has to be a two way thing. u must reciprocate in sex. else its not fun.

• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Dec 11, 10:00

  I understand how you feel.  You are not alone.

• Rock^Star

  13 Dec 11, 13:25

  Originally posted by Romeohorny:

  sorry guys for late reply.... was bz with school n work

  RockStar: I find sex as a better way of releaving your stress from work, life and study( degree). Also i am a hyper. we used to have sex and sleep at nite and wake up ,  fast wash up and have sex again and get ready to work.. till date i always wake up with a bulge and standing.. I am trying to be considerate .. but how abt my wife being considerate to me?.....

  Troublemaker2005: I do not have one.. also not that cheap and disgusting.. Thanks for your advise..

  Ilikeflings(m): Thanks bro. Cheers

  alize: Thanks, I want to talk to her but dont want to rush her or feel guilty of ignoring me.

  Jacky: It has to be a two way thing. u must reciprocate in sex. else its not fun.

  Then the wife has been really kind to accomodate you cos you have an abnormal craving for sex. Better sit down and discuss with her.

• mancha

  13 Dec 11, 13:43

  Don't go for the Fillpina, it will complicate things. The Fillipina won't let things go easily.

  Go for a mature FB, the ones that have reached menopause. They have their second wind, and no one to do the honours.

  You can fulfil the mutal needs with no attachment, and still remain with your wife. Maybe you can tell your wife of the temporary arrangements, she might agree to it.

• 韩飞官

  15 Dec 11, 03:13

  go geylang. try new women get new feeling and excitment. but be faitful and take care of ur family. go pick some wild flower is very normal

• benqepson

  15 Dec 11, 03:37

  Go to Batam with your wife for a short holiday and treat her to SPA. Make her the Queen for the day .

• XxYaNxX

  17 Dec 11, 01:49

  Originally posted by Romeohorny:

  I have been a hyper guy in sex since my early 20s and got married 3 yrs ago. sex life was good during the date and after the marriage untill we had a baby. things changed after that . From 4-5 times a week the sex life has been reduced to 1 time per week or 10 days. I do understand that she has been bz with the baby but i cant wait any longer or keep myself satisfied with my DIY.  I have been bz nowdays with porn and thinking of getting a fling with a pinoy neighbour. she seems to be enjoying my attention.

  I want to bring up this issue to my wife but worried she many think i am not understanding or i am being selfish...

  need help guys how do i get this to her to put back my sex life on track..

   

  She's probably self conscious of her body after having the baby, most women are.  Open up the session with foreplay.  Don't just demand sex from her, set the " mood " and see if she gives in.  Having an affair would be selfish, WAKE UP - you have a kid, set an example.  Perhaps if you did more around the house, she wouldn't be so tired to do anything - think about that one.

• XxYaNxX

  17 Dec 11, 01:50

  Originally posted by mancha:

  Don't go for the Fillpina, it will complicate things. The Fillipina won't let things go easily.

  Go for a mature FB, the ones that have reached menopause. They have their second wind, and no one to do the honours.

  You can fulfil the mutal needs with no attachment, and still remain with your wife. Maybe you can tell your wife of the temporary arrangements, she might agree to it.

  Are you being sarcastic ?

  She'd agree to him having an affair ?

• mancha

  18 Dec 11, 18:54

  Originally posted by XxYaNxX:

  Are you being sarcastic ?

  She'd agree to him having an affair ?

  I am giving him an alternative to the Filipina.

  I am telling him to avoid an affair situation.

  He can try servicing a mature woman, (with or without his wife's consent) for mutal benefit, without the complications of an affair.