Marrying a Smoker
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Things you will face if u marry a smoker
1) You will also become one even if u dun smoke cigarette; 2nd hand smoker.
2) Cigarette feeds the addiction it creates, and so u r marrying an addict. Takes time to consider the problems.
3) You shouldn't feel the heartache if he/she took out a few ten dollars notes everyday to burn. Cos it is the same effect as buying $10/packet of cigarettes to "burn" his lungs and money, not including the extras needed for medical bills in the future. To the smoker, it is money well spent.
4) Smoking can interfere with medicines used to treat high blood pressure. Uncontrolled or poorly controlled high blood pressure is a leading cause of kidney disease.
5) You need to smell the cigarette stain even when u are sleeping, or when doing activities with him/her. And these chemicals isn't any benefical to u.
6) Your children's health will not be spared too since they will lived in the same smoky environment. Whenever they have problems with their lungs (e.g asthma, bronchitis etc), you shouldn't forget it is due to the increased risk in the environment they lived in.
7) For u, expect to live a poorer life. The money spent on cigarette is more than enough to pay for the PUB, Phone n Internet bills every month
8 ) During work, the smoker cannot concentrate on his work for long and will take more breaks than others, to feed their addiction which they explained it relieves their stress.
9) As time passes, he/she will cough more n more, even when he/she is sleeping.
10) The above problems is worst if u smoke cigarette too. -
hehe its funny coz its true
I ain't marrying a smoker. never intended to anyway.
Smoking is probably the most uncoolest thing to do. -
Just quoting and replying
Things you will face if u marry a smoker
1) You will also become one even if u dun smoke cigarette; 2nd hand smoker.
AGREE
2) Cigarette feeds the addiction it creates, and so u r marrying an addict. Takes time to consider the problems.
DON't UNDERSTAND
3) You shouldn't feel the heartache if he/she took out a few ten dollars notes everyday to burn. Cos it is the same effect as buying $10/packet of cigarettes to "burn" his lungs and money, not including the extras needed for medical bills in the future. To the smoker, it is money well spent.
AGREE, but then it's his money (allowance) each month...so.....everyone is entitled to pleasures. Like for some women, they spend on SPAS or manicure each month. Don't you think that's also just as bad?[color]
4) Smoking can interfere with medicines used to treat high blood pressure. Uncontrolled or poorly controlled high blood pressure is a leading cause of kidney disease.
[color=red] AGREE
5) You need to smell the cigarette stain even when u are sleeping, or when doing activities with him/her. And these chemicals isn't any benefical to u.
AGREE, but however, if he takes good care of "cleaning" himself like brushing his teeth and bathing after smoking. What's the issue?
6) Your children's health will not be spared too since they will lived in the same smoky environment. Whenever they have problems with their lungs (e.g asthma, bronchitis etc), you shouldn't forget it is due to the increased risk in the environment they lived in.
AGREE, BUT again, it depends on the smoker itself. If he/she takes good care not to be "blowing" or "smoking" infront of ur kids and cleaning up before any sort of smoke gets to ur kids. Is that an issue?
7) For u, expect to live a poorer life. The money spent on cigarette is more than enough to pay for the PUB, Phone n Internet bills every month
MAYBE, it depends on how much the smoker smokes?
8 ) During work, the smoker cannot concentrate on his work for long and will take more breaks than others, to feed their addiction which they explained it relieves their stress.
MAYBE. Again depends on smoker. Some smokers can do w/o smoking for days or they are social smokers...so..this don't affect them
9) As time passes, he/she will cough more n more, even when he/she is sleeping.
eh...so far I don't hear my husband coughing leh
10) The above problems is worst if u smoke cigarette too.[/quote]
DISAGREE, it still depends on the smokers...and aboves are the answers -
oh no, the whole world hate me
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we both smoke.
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Smoking cigarettes cause a person to be addicted, as it contains nicotine.Originally posted by icebaby0:Just quoting and replying
2) Cigarette feeds the addiction it creates, and so u r marrying an addict. Takes time to consider the problems.
DON't UNDERSTAND
When the person is addicted, he/she will smoke more to feed the addiction.
The problem associated with an addict is lack of concentration when the craving comes. Thus affecting his/her work, conversation, n relationship. -
I smoke before so I know. I was never addicted to it. Maybe the reason I didn't smoke as much as many sticks as most.Originally posted by SnowFlag:Smoking cigarettes cause a person to be addicted, as it contains nicotine.
When the person is addicted, he/she will smoke more to feed the addiction.
The problem associated with an addict is lack of concentration when the craving comes. Thus affecting his/her work, conversation, n relationship.
But anyway, those pple who are HEAVY smokers, I seriously do no advise to stop smoking immediately but instead cut down slowly. Cos your body system can't take the immediate change of "fresh" air. I have seen too many pple who are heavy smokers cut down suddenly and some died within months as their body system goes haywire...while some are literally sick. -
DISAGREE, it still depends on the smokers...and aboves are the answers [/b][/quote]Originally posted by icebaby0:Just quoting and replying
[b]Things you will face if u marry a smoker
1) You will also become one even if u dun smoke cigarette; 2nd hand smoker.
AGREE
2) Cigarette feeds the addiction it creates, and so u r marrying an addict. Takes time to consider the problems.
DON't UNDERSTAND
Meaning that you will have to waste money feeding his addiction on cigarettes.
3) You shouldn't feel the heartache if he/she took out a few ten dollars notes everyday to burn. Cos it is the same effect as buying $10/packet of cigarettes to "burn" his lungs and money, not including the extras needed for medical bills in the future. To the smoker, it is money well spent.
AGREE, but then it's his money (allowance) each month...so.....everyone is entitled to pleasures. Like for some women, they spend on SPAS or manicure each month. Don't you think that's also just as bad?
SPA and manicure don't cause lung cancer and other health complications. it isn't just about spending money. there's nothing wrong with pleasures, as long as it doesn't harm other people in the process. smoking (a pleasure?) harms the family.
4) Smoking can interfere with medicines used to treat high blood pressure. Uncontrolled or poorly controlled high blood pressure is a leading cause of kidney disease.
AGREE
5) You need to smell the cigarette stain even when u are sleeping, or when doing activities with him/her. And these chemicals isn't any benefical to u.
AGREE, but however, if he takes good care of "cleaning" himself like brushing his teeth and bathing after smoking. What's the issue?
i've got friends who does all those things and still smell of cigarettes. faint, but still there.
6) Your children's health will not be spared too since they will lived in the same smoky environment. Whenever they have problems with their lungs (e.g asthma, bronchitis etc), you shouldn't forget it is due to the increased risk in the environment they lived in.
AGREE, BUT again, it depends on the smoker itself. If he/she takes good care not to be "blowing" or "smoking" infront of ur kids and cleaning up before any sort of smoke gets to ur kids. Is that an issue?
yes, it's an issue. my ex neighbour's dad smoked outside the house etc, but the kid in the end still picked up smoking. i'd agree that even if your parents don't smoke, you could pick up the habit from outside, but let just say that its worse when your centre of influence since young, smokes. the tendancy is higher that you will pick up smoking. the probability of someone with a family background who smoke, pick up smoking is higher than someone with a family background who doesn't smoke.
7) For u, expect to live a poorer life. The money spent on cigarette is more than enough to pay for the PUB, Phone n Internet bills every month
MAYBE, it depends on how much the smoker smokes?
True, but the money spent in cigarettes, regardless of amount, can be used in a better way. Hell... giving it to charity is better than buying cigarettes.
8 ) During work, the smoker cannot concentrate on his work for long and will take more breaks than others, to feed their addiction which they explained it relieves their stress.
MAYBE. Again depends on smoker. Some smokers can do w/o smoking for days or they are social smokers...so..this don't affect them
True, but how many smokers today can say that their "social smoking" habits didn't become something more than just "social"?
9) As time passes, he/she will cough more n more, even when he/she is sleeping.
eh...so far I don't hear my husband coughing leh
Wait another 10 years then say.
10) The above problems is worst if u smoke cigarette too.
It's not good enough to just "depend on the smoker itself" because this sentence is an excuse. it is not a solution
It's common knowledge that smoking is bad for health, that fact, by itself should be reason enough to quit smoking, regardless of cost, whether its "social" or not. -
wu di shi ji mo de...haha...think wrong context...but the meaning is thereOriginally posted by FireIce:we both smoke. -
I smoke...she don't like...so i dun smoke.....infront of her or with her...
I smoke...but Mother kpkb....so i dun smoke....infront of her....
I smoke at kopitiam...see got kids/babies/elderly ard me...i choose to either sit away from them/throw away my cig....
Simple as that.... Smoke with considerations... -
u so good...last time my ex wanna me to quit smoking...then i dumped her
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Wah seh!... YOu're a B-E-A-S-T....haha.,...she wan u to quit is for your good wat...i also noe smoking's bad...but wat to do...it's already a habit..at the most dun smoke infront of them....dunno y i can dun smoke when i'm with her for 3days...but after sending her home...hehe...*PUFF*Originally posted by bratpig:u so good...last time my ex wanna me to quit smoking...then i dumped her -
there are other factors, primarily cuz i like another girl but she got bf...aiyah...messy la...but if my ex were not so fan...i may like her loOriginally posted by dcx:Wah seh!... YOu're a B-E-A-S-T....haha.,...she wan u to quit is for your good wat...i also noe smoking's bad...but wat to do...it's already a habit..at the most dun smoke infront of them....dunno y i can dun smoke when i'm with her for 3days...but after sending her home...hehe...*PUFF* -
OhZ...u wan to "hen dao duo ai"???If she bery fan.....you muz tell her wat...mine also tell me that if i feel her that she bery fan..i muz tell her..Originally posted by bratpig:there are other factors, primarily cuz i like another girl but she got bf...aiyah...messy la...but if my ex were not so fan...i may like her lo -
he's a pig
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i really like her a lot leh. haizOriginally posted by dcx:OhZ...u wan to "hen dao duo ai"???If she bery fan.....you muz tell her wat...mine also tell me that if i feel her that she bery fan..i muz tell her..
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You're a dumb?Originally posted by dumbdumb!:he's a pig -
I don't denyOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:he's a pig
Feel that I'm a dumb pig too. Left someone who loves me for someone who dunno love me ornot and already has a bf -
what are you? illiterate? there's no such thing as someone is a dumb.Originally posted by dcx:You're a dumb?
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nah...dumbdumb is a funny guy...can really suan peopleOriginally posted by dcx:You're a dumb? -
dats not dumb ... dats lust.Originally posted by bratpig:I don't deny
Feel that I'm a dumb pig too. Left someone who loves me for someone who dunno love me ornot and already has a bf
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nah...relax...this is a smoking thread...not a flaming threadOriginally posted by dumbdumb!:what are you? illiterate? there's no such thing as someone is a dumb. 
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Check the dict. there's such a word....dun make me think that you're really a dumb person...Originally posted by dumbdumb!:what are you? illiterate? there's no such thing as someone is a dumb. -
lust? maybe...but i've nvr lust after someone so badly b4Originally posted by KumSioJui:dats not dumb ... dats lust. -
lolOriginally posted by bratpig:u so good...last time my ex wanna me to quit smoking...then i dumped her