You give good advise but...
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the person being advised thinks u r crazy.
I often met this kind of situations, and I often wonder if I am on the wrong planet. But some of my friends will reassure me that it is b'cos I see things deeper.
Has that happens to u? You try to help but they think u r crazy. -
u give advice, u advise people
anyway, yah, zhong yan ni er, the devil play the best music..
Each path we chose in life is our own responsibility. Whether or not such advices are realli good or bad, we reap the fruits, or we bear the consequences. Afterall, we got brain to think of a decision.
What i can do for my friends is to give them advices. if they dont listen, then fine by me. i gave up advising fools. -
agreeOriginally posted by laurence82:u give advice, u advise people
anyway, yah, zhong yan ni er, the devil play the best music..
Each path we chose in life is our own responsibility. Whether or not such advices are realli good or bad, we reap the fruits, or we bear the consequences. Afterall, we got brain to think of a decision.
What i can do for my friends is to give them advices. if they dont listen, then fine by me. i gave up advising fools. -
Agreed agreed.
x2Originally posted by laurence82:u give advice, u advise people
anyway, yah, zhong yan ni er, the devil play the best music..
Each path we chose in life is our own responsibility. Whether or not such advices are realli good or bad, we reap the fruits, or we bear the consequences. Afterall, we got brain to think of a decision.
What i can do for my friends is to give them advices. if they dont listen, then fine by me. i gave up advising fools. -
MAYBE you ARE REALLY CRAZY..?? <Originally posted by SnowFlag:the person being advised thinks u r crazy.
I often met this kind of situations, and I often wonder if I am on the wrong planet. But some of my friends will reassure me that it is b'cos I see things deeper.
Has that happens to u? You try to help but they think u r crazy.> -
When i used to be in SJAB as an officer, i know of ppl who gives advice but end up got said as insubordination.. I Frankiy think this world is crazy.. give advice dun want to listen... keep into your own view and one day when you wake up and find out that the advice was good... you will learn to regret
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Yeah... SAF is a CRAZY place...Originally posted by spacerevo:When i used to be in SJAB as an officer, i know of ppl who gives advice but end up got said as insubordination.. I Frankiy think this world is crazy.. give advice dun want to listen... keep into your own view and one day when you wake up and find out that the advice was good... you will learn to regret -
How did you approach your friend's problem and offer advise.Originally posted by SnowFlag:the person being advised thinks u r crazy.
I often met this kind of situations, and I often wonder if I am on the wrong planet. But some of my friends will reassure me that it is b'cos I see things deeper.
Has that happens to u? You try to help but they think u r crazy.
Advises are never crazy, because it's of good will gesture. Unless you gave suggestions that's out of this world. Which i believe you didn't.
Ability to see things deeper means you've attain a higher state of conciousness.
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Law of Harvest.Originally posted by laurence82:u give advice, u advise people
anyway, yah, zhong yan ni er, the devil play the best music..
Each path we chose in life is our own responsibility. Whether or not such advices are realli good or bad, we reap the fruits, or we bear the consequences. Afterall, we got brain to think of a decision.
What i can do for my friends is to give them advices. if they dont listen, then fine by me. i gave up advising fools.
As in principle of a friend. It should not only offer advises, in fact a friend who thinks it is right for him/her to see what situation he/she's in. Offer a wider scope of view to let him/her see the picture.
Usually people are unable to listen to advises are due to - advises are void of emotions of he/she is going thru(Theory vs practical)
Many of us 'advisers' failed to impact problem-bearer point of view leading them to see light.
Advises are like words without light.
Many can speak, few bother to take an extra mile with him/her.
Cheers -
Maybe it really wasn't such a good advise.
Maybe they don't need advise.
Maybe they only need a hearing ear or a shoulder to cry on.