Originally posted by shinta:
my reply is...
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once, my sister popped the question to our mother.. "wat would u do if u realised that one of us is pregnant?" (*there are 3 daughters at home) My mother said, she could help look after the baby, provided that she doesn have to work, so the "mother" can go ahead to do wat she wants, she'll be there..
... u have to noe tat no matter wat happens, no matter how big the stress is, ur family will be there for u..
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being a single mother isn't easy, but being in a marriage just becos of pregnancy isn't that good either.. I've seen it.. my family's like that.. My mother raised all of us single-handedly, we have a father, they're married but he doesn contribute at all. sch fees, livin expenses n everything were forked out by my mother..
n my mother blamed me for that... geez..
I admire your mother. She's strong enough to bring all of you up single-handedly. On top of that, she's really a good mother who supports your decisions. Not many parents would approve of their daughters being a single-mum.
