But the girl is pregnant!
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Recently, I introduced my online female friend to my close male friend. I absolutely have no knowledge that she is pregnant.
Anyway, my friend seemed to get along well with her initially. They intended to go out for a date. It was only later that my buddy told me that the girl was 5 months pregnant. He told me that he was in love with her, but I seriously doubt so. How could it be possible to love someone he didn't even know?
In the end, my friend accompanied the girl for her counselling session as she was only 15 years old. My friend wants to stay by that girl's side, but I think that the girl is only making use of him. It is a lifetime commitment for my friend, as once he stays by her side, he cannot leave her. Think of it as giving a kid a lollipop, only to take it away from him later. Isn't that cruel?
If you're the guy, would you stay by the girl's side? You've barely even known her for more than a week.
"Don't say you love me, you don't even know me" - M2M
If you're the girl, do you want the guy by your side because you love him? Or is it because you just want someone to love you? -
Oh gee...
But the question is....who's the father of the baby?
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Definitely not my friend. He has only known her for 1 week, while she is 5 months pregnant.
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Another question: Why keep the baby when she knows that she cannot cope with it? She's only 15 years old...
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I think your fren should not make a foolish decision (in my opinion) to marry her....she's 15, and he's (age pls?) and he has so much years ahead! Would he want to recognise the child as his own? To me, it ain't, and there MUST be a reason why the father of the child did not want the girl. And why is this girl wanting to marry the guy (who's not the father of the child!). Is it for the money? Most probably.Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:Another question: Why keep the baby when she knows that she cannot cope with it? She's only 15 years old...
One moment of pleasure, 9 months of pain and emotional tension.
Of course, I wont wanna come to conclusions and think of all the possible reasons, but yea, I wont encourage ur fren to marry her
My 2cents worth
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My friend is crazy. He's turning 18 soon but I think he's blinded somehow. He's probably only sympathising her.
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Why keep the baby? Would you rather kill him/her?Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:Another question: Why keep the baby when she knows that she cannot cope with it? She's only 15 years old...
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OMG 5months..
She's keeping the baby to full term?? -
Hmn... But she's only 15. Would you give up your future because of the baby? I guess this is a very difficult decision to make.
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Yes what else... She doesn't want to kill the life in her.Originally posted by Lingos:OMG 5months..
She's keeping the baby to full term?? -
OMG is she keeping it or giving it up for adoption.Originally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:Yes what else... She doesn't want to kill the life in her.
OMG she's only 15, she's gonna get lectured in school, home, everywhere!! -
Whether keeping the child or giving him/her up for adoption, it beats aborting.
It's not the baby's fault that it wants to be born right? -
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It's true that the baby is innocent. But put yourself in her shoes. Would you keep the baby?
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We may say that in her shoes we will keep the baby, but truly we cannot know for sure. We know that we should, but can we know that we will do the right thing? Hard to say really. You won't know how it feels till it happens to you.
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If it happened to me, I would be at a loss.
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She went for abortion in the end. I thought that abortion at the 5th month of pregnancy was dangerous and impossible.
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very sad
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A life is lostOriginally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:She went for abortion in the end. I thought that abortion at the 5th month of pregnancy was dangerous and impossible.
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Maybe it's better this way... Ain't it better than bringing the baby into this world to suffer if she can't bring him up?