Help! I need to convince my boyfriend to use condoms
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Okay guys, help me out here.
My bf of 5 yrs wants us to have sex soon. I want that as well but the problem is he does NOT want to use condoms. He said it restricts the pleasure he’ll get out of it but omg, I cannot get pregnant now! I’m in my final year studying to get a degree. My fren got pregnant when she was still doing her degree and she had such a hard time juggling with sch and newborn baby. Not to mention all the crap she had to take from her family.
Does anyone have any advice? Is there something I can do to convince him to use condoms? Or are there any other solutions besides condoms?
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nothing is 100% guranteed fail proof..
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femadom, spermicide, condom combo!
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Originally posted by Rihhana taylor:
kay guys, help me out here.
My bf of 5 yrs wants us to have sex soon. I want that as well but the problem is he does NOT want to use condoms. He said it restricts the pleasure he’ll get out of it but omg, I cannot get pregnant now! I’m in my final year studying to get a degree. My fren got pregnant when she was still doing her degree and she had such a hard time juggling with sch and newborn baby. Not to mention all the crap she had to take from her family.
Does anyone have any advice? Is there something I can do to convince him to use condoms? Or are there any other solutions besides condoms?
Learn to be assertive. You won't die without unprotected sex.
Tell him simply No condom NO SEX.
Hey.. using condom is better than having no sex. Go figure!!
You get pregnant your life is finish.. while he can dump you and go fuck another girl without using condom again.
You will have to kill your baby or give birth to him/her.
For him.. he shiok without condom.. YOU have to pay the price for him to shiok one night...
his life goes on as usual.. yours will be ruined.
Do you really want to be treated that way.
Don't ever let a man convince you into having unprotected sex when you are not ready.
Is he a virgin ? How you know the other girls he had sex with don't have disease ?
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Originally posted by Herzog_Zwei:
femadom, spermicide, condom combo!
lol
Thats if side effects aside la.
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Tell him straight, no cap no fuck.
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just give him a blowjob... i believe he would want a blowjob more than having sex with u..
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use plastic long lor....add axe oil
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Well both of you share some responsbility in the relationship.... you can always take birth pills for your own sake. However, just like anything, it's not 100% safe.
You may need to have a good chat with your boyfriend..... to let him realise about the consequences especially if you are not planning to start a family just yet. You can do your part on taking birth pills while he can do his by wearing protection. At the end of the day, it's between both of you to sort that out. If you want to be 100% safe, avoid sex altogether.
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if you're dump enough to let him do without protection, you don't deserve a degree..
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Originally posted by dukedracula:
if you're dump enough to let him do without protection, you don't deserve a degree..
haha good one..
5 years then hv sex ? a bit slow leh
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Do it while you have your menses. Yes, its a mess but no cap, thats all you get.
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u wan to have fun but dont wan responsible then dump him lah. mo point have baby then cay after u kill the baby.
everytime he wan to have sex
pour some tomato on yr virgina area and tell him "lai an" loh .........
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Originally posted by ditzy:
Do it while you have your menses. Yes, its a mess but no cap, thats all you get.
The boy is so dumb? Mess like u said. -
Oral pills? Althought nt 100 % safe.
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tell him got condom also no SEX!
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just ask him to go fly kites if he dun agree lor..... this kind of things can only beg one.. cannot demand....
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get him a pocket pussy or a rubber blown up doll...no condoms ever needed....just dont destroy it using all his strength.
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Originally posted by dukedracula:
if you're dump enough to let him do without protection, you don't deserve a degree..
I completely agree.Please grow some brains TS.
I cannot imagine that someone persuing a degree can be as dumb as you are. This is not just your life alone, if you get pregnant you WILL involve another innocent life.
Please be more responsible.
And tell your boyfriend to fuck off.
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anal sex
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Do it when you have period. Ask him to take his penis out when his about to shoot. Or no condom no fuck. Give him some subsitutes like BJ or HJ.
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Originally posted by Rihhana taylor:
Okay guys, help me out here.
My bf of 5 yrs wants us to have sex soon. I want that as well but the problem is he does NOT want to use condoms. He said it restricts the pleasure he’ll get out of it but omg, I cannot get pregnant now! I’m in my final year studying to get a degree. My fren got pregnant when she was still doing her degree and she had such a hard time juggling with sch and newborn baby. Not to mention all the crap she had to take from her family.
Does anyone have any advice? Is there something I can do to convince him to use condoms? Or are there any other solutions besides condoms?
I think this is a ametter for discussion between your and his families. Call a meeting and fix a time at either families' place and bring this issue out for discussion. otherwise spend some money and get him to go geylang call chicks or buy a few packs of condoms. people who stud for a degree should have more brains to make a simple decision and come to a solution for this type of problem.
Otherwise you can post at bar or sgsexforums, many horny desperate guys and gays there can providde the service of screwing your boyfriend instead without condomns.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Do it when you have period. Ask him to take his penis out when his about to shoot.
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5 years and no sex.I wonder why he hung out with u so long since obviously u aint worth it! Must be a loser couple then. Plz dnt breed more!
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Do it when you have period. Ask him to take his penis out when his about to shoot. Or no condom no fuck. Give him some subsitutes like BJ or HJ.
Guys cant control de. If withdrawal method is so gd no need condoms.