I shouldn't fall so easily...
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I am feeling very insecure right now. I keep feeling like I shouldn't fall in love too fast. Because once I let myself fall too fast, the other party seems to lose interest as well.
just now i called him to ask him to go dinner. he was not in. i tried to msg him but he is not online. no way to contact him at all. i was very worried. so in the end i went wif my other frens to dinner and i saw him there..just done wif his dinner. i tink he was eating there alone or sth...why not give me a call?? i can't understand this...mebbe he is sick of seeing me.
part of me is telling me dat i m being clingy and unreasonable cos i tink he was rather busy these few days but still is it so hard to give me a call? damn it. i am very angry right now. i feel like a fool for falling for sumone again so soon. why is it so easy for me to trust someone? I am just putting myself in the risk of getting hurt again...
i am just a fool. feel like crying. i tink i m too stressed and there is no one i can turn to. mebbe he is sick of me complaining all the time..i m feeling so inssecure and i cant even bring myself to tell him tis.
i m just a stupid girl.
i.c.y -
i guess u're insecure because the status quo
between you 2 is still uncertain.
well sort of together yet not quite there.
not trying to find excuses for him but try to
speak with him yeah. maybe just jokingly and ask him
"hey i saw you having dinner tat night, wanted to ask u for dinner but couldn't contact you. shall we do dinner together next time?"Originally posted by icyprincess:I am feeling very insecure right now. I keep feeling like I shouldn't fall in love too fast. Because once I let myself fall too fast, the other party seems to lose interest as well.
just now i called him to ask him to go dinner. he was not in. i tried to msg him but he is not online. no way to contact him at all. i was very worried. so in the end i went wif my other frens to dinner and i saw him there..just done wif his dinner. i tink he was eating there alone or sth...why not give me a call?? i can't understand this...mebbe he is sick of seeing me.
part of me is telling me dat i m being clingy and unreasonable cos i tink he was rather busy these few days but still is it so hard to give me a call? damn it. i am very angry right now. i feel like a fool for falling for sumone again so soon. why is it so easy for me to trust someone? I am just putting myself in the risk of getting hurt again...
i am just a fool. feel like crying. i tink i m too stressed and there is no one i can turn to. mebbe he is sick of me complaining all the time..i m feeling so inssecure and i cant even bring myself to tell him tis.
i m just a stupid girl.
i.c.y -
i feel scared to msg him right now. he is online now but i dun wan to talk to him.Originally posted by foga:i guess u're insecure because the status quo
between you 2 is still uncertain.
well sort of together yet not quite there.
not trying to find excuses for him but try to
speak with him yeah. maybe just jokingly and ask him
"hey i saw you having dinner tat night, wanted to ask u for dinner but couldn't contact you. shall we do dinner together next time?"
meanwhile i m crying and he doesnt even know. everytime i have to be the one suffering when i m trying to get into a r/s. tot this time wud be different. but have a feeling evting is just going to be the same.
if he is not sure he wans to be wif me, he shud not be so nice to me lor...like wan to play wif me like dat...so cruel...
how can i learn to trust again if evone i met is like this??
i.c.y -
icy, if u treasure the relationship tat you have with him, i guess it's onli right u let him know how u feels. u dun have to be the one tat's suffering. u're suffering now because u are thinking he doesn't care about you. which might not be the case. since u have so many question in your mind, why not have a chat with him? questions in a relationship cause insecureness.Originally posted by icyprincess:i feel scared to msg him right now. he is online now but i dun wan to talk to him.
meanwhile i m crying and he doesnt even know. everytime i have to be the one suffering when i m trying to get into a r/s. tot this time wud be different. but have a feeling evting is just going to be the same.
if he is not sure he wans to be wif me, he shud not be so nice to me lor...like wan to play wif me like dat...so cruel...
how can i learn to trust again if evone i met is like this??
i.c.y -
how to ask..when we r not in a relationship yet...i dunno whether he sees me as a close fren only or as sth else..i really dunno...Originally posted by foga:icy, if u treasure the relationship tat you have with him, i guess it's onli right u let him know how u feels. u dun have to be the one tat's suffering. u're suffering now because u are thinking he doesn't care about you. which might not be the case. since u have so many question in your mind, why not have a chat with him? questions in a relationship cause insecureness.
i.c.y -
icy,there's too much uncertainties.
perhaps tat explains ur insecureness.
i would, like we talk abt in msn, find a time to speak to him.
wad price pride when u rather hurt the one u love than hurt ur pride?Originally posted by icyprincess:how to ask..when we r not in a relationship yet...i dunno whether he sees me as a close fren only or as sth else..i really dunno...
i.c.y -
yea i will talk to him later when he is back from work...Originally posted by foga:icy,there's too much uncertainties.
perhaps tat explains ur insecureness.
i would, like we talk abt in msn, find a time to speak to him.
wad price pride when u rather hurt the one u love than hurt ur pride?
he is hurting me..i have tried so hard not to hurt him...
i.c.y -
why fight fire with fire?
i'm not trying to find excuses for him, (
or am i? )
but anyway, do speak to him before u come to any conclusionsOriginally posted by icyprincess:yea i will talk to him later when he is back from work...
he is hurting me..i have tried so hard not to hurt him...
i.c.y -
plz dun think so much
chill,ok? -
i m not trying to fight fire with fire..
it is just dat i m not sure where i stand in all this...
i dun wan to like him so much oledi then one day he come and tell me that he never likes me at all...
my roomie said i shud stop worrying..said he spent so much money and time on me oledi of cos he likes me...
i dun understand why my heart doesn't want to listen...
i guess i m afraid to be hurt again..
i.c.y -
haha yea..evone is telling me i m thinking too much.Originally posted by amuletgurl:plz dun think so much
chill,ok?
i will try to relax..but very very stressed right now..
i.c.y -
hmmm.. would it be better if u ask him directly? ask him how he see the 2 of you as? u're worrying too much but i guess no one except him could pacifiy that little insecure heart of yours.Originally posted by icyprincess:i m not trying to fight fire with fire..
it is just dat i m not sure where i stand in all this...
i dun wan to like him so much oledi then one day he come and tell me that he never likes me at all...
my roomie said i shud stop worrying..said he spent so much money and time on me oledi of cos he likes me...
i dun understand why my heart doesn't want to listen...
i guess i m afraid to be hurt again..
i.c.y -
i m going to ask him this saturday oledi..Originally posted by foga:hmmm.. would it be better if u ask him directly? ask him how he see the 2 of you as? u're worrying too much but i guess no one except him could pacifiy that little insecure heart of yours.
but got ppl going to watch the show wif us
totally no privacy...
have to find a way to get him away from em only then i can ask...
i.c.y -
okie talk to him oledi...
said he was busy studying...then just went to eat early cos he has to go to work later...din call me cos scared i was sleeping...but said next time wud call me...i just told him jokingly lor..said i was damn hungry but nobody wants to eat wif me at dat time
then he said my eating pattern very irregular sia..sumtimes i wud be hungry early sumtimes i wudnt be...so oso dunno wat to do...haha...
i m evil...shudnt give him such a hard time just now...he said i looked very fierce just now...very scary hehe
now i know when i put on my icy mask i look fierce. dats a new one.
i.c.y -
ah finally the mystery being resolved
i quote my sispec CSM's words " u think i tot who confirm"
misunderstandings arises from miscomms.
gllad tat you 2 have move on the right track again!Originally posted by icyprincess:okie talk to him oledi...
said he was busy studying...then just went to eat early cos he has to go to work later...din call me cos scared i was sleeping...but said next time wud call me...i just told him jokingly lor..said i was damn hungry but nobody wants to eat wif me at dat time then he said my eating pattern very irregular sia..sumtimes i wud be hungry early sumtimes i wudnt be...so oso dunno wat to do...haha...
i m evil...shudnt give him such a hard time just now...he said i looked very fierce just now...very scary hehe
now i know when i put on my icy mask i look fierce. dats a new one.
i.c.y