how to make my fren giv up frm persuading me to join MLM
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alrite, lets call my fren andy. he's realli not that type of person who would cheat a friend or anything, but recently he asked me to visit his company cuz im quite free cuz i have holiday.
but my friends all say that mlm is a fraud. and one them even lost 1k+ in his time there. so andy keep askin me join him, but i keep saying lemme consider first. and he would keep telling me that im just wasting time. so i told him i wouldnt mind trying if theres no risk of losing $$$, but he would tell me that this is business and there's risk. but if you believe in urself then u would succeed
then he said nowadays working for companies earn u too little. he say if work in mlm 3yrs can make 8k+ per month. he asked me to think abt my future and stuff...
how do i counter him? -
just tell him that you intend to be an engineer/lawyer/architect/chemist/etc and has no interest to be your-own boss
for myself....i would rather lose this friend if he keeps pestering
i used to have a friend like that too....gave up his NUS studies to join MLM
Now, end up begging army take sign him up
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if u r not interested just say no. you are not entitled to give him any reasons. if he is truly yr fren he will respect yr decision n leave u alone.
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look deep into his eyes
in a solemn tone
pat his shoulder, say
"fren, hui tou shi an, xuan ya le ma."
then walk away slowly, shaking ur head -
use this line: which part of NO did you not understand?
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and "fang xia tu dao, li di cheng fou"Originally posted by FireIce:look deep into his eyes
in a solemn tone
pat his shoulder, say
"fren, hui tou shi an, xuan ya le ma."
then walk away slowly, shaking ur head -
but tis fren diff, he realli sincere i think...and i dun wanna b too aggresive and if i say i wanna becum engineer he will say engineer earn very little and stuff
and tbh i realli wanna earn lots of money but i nt sure whether mlm is the way to go -
the point is not persuading you to join
it is to help him get out of it -
very hard lehz da jie...anywayz our conversation ended sth like this...Originally posted by FireIce:the point is not persuading you to join
it is to help him get out of it
andy: if i get my car in 3yrs hor...
me: then gd, i will feel happy for u. but i wun regret my decision
andy: hmm...okie, but if u wanna join anytime just let me noe
me: sure bye
andy: bye
we left on a gd note i say, but tbh i think its almoz impossible to get him out...hes someone who realli believe in himself de. and from what i know, not all mlm companies are scams. some realli can make money de, but not an exaggerated amount.
so i think its better for him to stay in the business for a longer period and judge for himself bah....btw his gd fren who introduced him into the company hav been workin for more than half a yr and it seems to b going fine 4 him -
They always use the above trick to try and scare you... they like to put down all other professions and claim that the only future anyone has a chance in is MLM. Dont listen to them, it's bullshit... I know for a moment you might be thinking, oh yah what if I end up in some crappy job and lousy pay for the rest of my life... if u are studying now... work hard, have a decent cert and u have a much better chance in life. dont listen to those crap like what graduates have no jobs... if u are a non grad, harder for u to find job... dont be a sucker for money... these mlm ppl are all money minded...they dont care about service nor products, they are only concerned with recruiting.Originally posted by alkaiden:alrite, lets call my fren andy. he's realli not that type of person who would cheat a friend or anything, but recently he asked me to visit his company cuz im quite free cuz i have holiday.
but my friends all say that mlm is a fraud. and one them even lost 1k+ in his time there. so andy keep askin me join him, but i keep saying lemme consider first. and he would keep telling me that im just wasting time. so i told him i wouldnt mind trying if theres no risk of losing $$$, but he would tell me that this is business and there's risk. but if you believe in urself then u would succeed
then he said nowadays working for companies earn u too little. he say if work in mlm 3yrs can make 8k+ per month. he asked me to think abt my future and stuff...
how do i counter him? -
Depends
If he can be countered with facts, then do so. What are the reasons why his company is labelled as fraud? Gather more info on them and present it to him.
If he is of the other type, those chaps who like to talk MLM as if they are doing a thesis on philosophy, my advice is to let them be and learn the lessons.
Notwithstanding, if he is found to be doing well and it seems his company is A ok, well, i guess as a friend you have to encourage him. -
Tell him you like men.
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got this person tell me
"u can have big house big car in a few yrs time"
then i ask him "jus now how u come meet me?"
"oh, i take mrt"
then i wanna jot down notes, he pass me red leaf pen.....
lao niang take cab use mont blanc u know
not to mention......my frens love me! -
the only way to stop him from pestering u is to ask him to join ur mlm
ask him pay 1000 bucks
if he can get 2 ppl to pay u 1000 bucks then u give him 100 lo
tell him sure earn one
the 11th ppl he bring in already earn money -
Thats already a pyramidOriginally posted by BaByBoY:the only way to stop him from pestering u is to ask him to join ur mlm
ask him pay 1000 bucks
if he can get 2 ppl to pay u 1000 bucks then u give him 100 lo
tell him sure earn one
the 11th ppl he bring in already earn money
Go rewrite ur biz plan lar -
mind telling us wad comapny is he in?
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enyouthOriginally posted by hiphop2009:mind telling us wad comapny is he in? -
oooh enyouth....nvr been dere b4....but heard of it...
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of cuz i guess ur fren's job is to woo more pple to join the company ma....so he will hav to "leash" out the standard stuff dat he has to say.....
feel dat u can do it n u wanna be a business man?...go ahead...probably ur first dream towards being a business man......
otherwise if u juz wanna lead a comfortable n smooth life (those pple who doesnt like to cheong), juz study hard get a cert n find a proper job....u can make a decent living out of it..... -
dont let your friend trick eu lor.
8k in 3 mths ?
thats really impossible inside a mlm company.
i worked before and get not even a single cent when my boss "promised" us cars and 5 k salary per mth.
its just lies to get eu into the company.
rmb no one can force eu what eu do not want to do.
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eh typo , 3 years i mean *
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If something sounds so good, then it's probably just plain lies.
Don't waste time to be involved with MLM.
You only end up feeling angry and frustrated in the end. -
If something sounds so good, then it's probably just plain lies.
i agree waste time, waste $$ and even worst may also lost a good friendship too
Don't waste time to be involved with MLM.
You only end up feeling angry and frustrated in the end. -
hmmm..... if you really don't want to join any organization/ corporation/ agency... no one can coerce you.
just remember you make your own choices. if you are persuaded by what your friend or his company has to offer, it doesn't mean that you are weak too, we are humans, worked by our needs, wants, desires and emotions, by all means go with what you want to do. -
A schboy here..Wats MLM ah ? wats do they do ?