When do you consider yourself attached?
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in today's world the line between being single and attached is quite blurred out... for example; you can hold a girl's hand, you can kiss her lips, both can say, "i love you", you can even have physical contact with her but you do not know when you can call the two of you a "couple".
i used to like a girl alot, dated her, held her hands and even had sex with her... i thought it's a couple thingy and presumed that we are a couple and i'm officially attached but when i contacted her the next day, she just told me we are still friends and thanks for everything...
so right now... when do we define that we are in a relationship?
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I think maybe you got yourself a fuckbuddy you lucky bastard
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when you ask her to be girlfriend.
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i thought it was quite obvious that after "i love you" and sex, she's going to be my girlfriend?
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Originally posted by novelltie:
"she just told me we are still friends and thanks for everything..."
It's not that you did not have a relationship with her. It's just that you're being dump and you don't even know it.
btw.. wrong forum.
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actually my post isn't focusing on my "case". it was rather a discussion on; is it more difficult to determine when a relationship starts and end or have the lines been blurred by the liberation of women.
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Originally posted by novelltie:
in today's world the line between being single and attached is quite blurred out... for example; you can hold a girl's hand, you can kiss her lips, both can say, "i love you", you can even have physical contact with her but you do not know when you can call the two of you a "couple".
i used to like a girl alot, dated her, held her hands and even had sex with her... i thought it's a couple thingy and presumed that we are a couple and i'm officially attached but when i contacted her the next day, she just told me we are still friends and thanks for everything...
so right now... when do we define that we are in a relationship?
When she open her mouth and say it...
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u must ask her to be ur stead first, den have sex..dun do the other way around mah..unless ur not serious..
some girls (like guys) are just horny and will take anything available..
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Originally posted by novelltie:
i thought it was quite obvious that after "i love you" and sex, she's going to be my girlfriend?
saying "i love you" earned you... free sex.
she will be girlfriend when you ask her to be girlfriend.
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Originally posted by novelltie:
i thought it was quite obvious that after "i love you" and sex, she's going to be my girlfriend?
err, did u screw up something along the way?
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You were like me back then when I dated this singaporean girl. I thought we were an ideal couple and all, she loved me and I loved her. We met in 2006 through mutual friends and that following year in 2007, she changed, there was a lack of communication, whenever i can over to her or she came over to my place, all we did was have sex. She had something to tell me but she didn't tell me until 9 months later. thats when we broke up.
Just take it as a sex buddy or something that you had fun with.
Now is a different stage, I am happy with my current gf. At least there's communication among us rather than non and we get along just fine, and the sex is good too =)
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nowadays r/s very LUAN
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sex help to burn calories.
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Originally posted by novelltie:
in today's world the line between being single and attached is quite blurred out... for example; you can hold a girl's hand, you can kiss her lips, both can say, "i love you", you can even have physical contact with her but you do not know when you can call the two of you a "couple".
i used to like a girl alot, dated her, held her hands and even had sex with her... i thought it's a couple thingy and presumed that we are a couple and i'm officially attached but when i contacted her the next day, she just told me we are still friends and thanks for everything...
so right now... when do we define that we are in a relationship?
It's when both of you and your other half declare that both of you are girlfriend and boyfriend ^__^
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Erm... if you are dating her, then try calling both of two a couple in front of your friends and see if she minds or not. Cos... Fbuddies only date to f that day... not date on normal days...
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Originally posted by caleb_chiang:
Erm... if you are dating her, then try calling both of two a couple in front of your friends and see if she minds or not. Cos... Fbuddies only date to f that day... not date on normal days...
Aiyo.. better just ask her straightaway lar, "are you my gf?" hehe
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Originally posted by novelltie:
i thought it was quite obvious that after "i love you" and sex, she's going to be my girlfriend?
u winner lor. shld be ask her to be ur gf first, then "i love you", then sex. when things happen the opposite way, it's usually not a good sign. life is not a hollywood movie. :/
u sound like u have feelings for her liao. i suggest u dun continue to be her f buddy. otherwise, jus end up having unrealistic expectations and hurting urself.
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Dun say relationship luan or not..
even after break up they still sex me.
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-.- like hell u got loogee when she say thx for everything
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Originally posted by Warcounter:
-.- like hell u got loogee when she say thx for everything
TS didn't get enough
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stead? LOL!
i haven't heard that word since Inclined Flex Arm Hang
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Originally posted by novelltie:
i thought it was quite obvious that after "i love you" and sex, she's going to be my girlfriend?
Its your wishful thinking...she doesnt think tat way precisely -
Possibly, she's waiting for the offical question. If she's not attached, don't hestitate to ask her. I think some girls didn't want to make an assumption in this case, for the sake of 'face' and not wanting to pressurize the guy into a relationship.
Good luck
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Originally posted by asharae:
Possibly, she's waiting for the offical question. If she's not attached, don't hestitate to ask her. I think some girls didn't want to make an assumption in this case, for the sake of 'face' and not wanting to pressurize the guy into a relationship.
Good luck
but she said "thank you for everything"
also = thank you it's enough -
Originally posted by de_middle:
err, did u screw up something along the way?
I think he did 'Screwed' something ....Didnt he? lolx