Asking for a date??
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Originally posted by newcomer:
eh.. i'm a noob at dating. dun take my words for gospel
Keep trying..Dont give up so easily..
To see the rainbow, u must first bare with the rain :P
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Originally posted by Go:
this is so subtile - leaving a "yes", "no" answer
it's the least hurting way, oui? -
Originally posted by newcomer:
it's the least hurting way, oui?
Dont know. But if a girl left me with "yes", "no" answer, I will definitely ask again. I would prefer she just simply tell me a "no". -
indirect is always the best way to take them by the flanks
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Originally posted by newcomer:
it's the least hurting way, oui?
I would rather the other party rejects immediately than to keep someone waiting for answer/hope in suspend.. -
if you cant even pick up the phone and ask a person out on a date. how in the world would you behave when both of u r out?
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Originally posted by skeujin:
if you cant even pick up the phone and ask a person out on a date. how in the world would you behave when both of u r out?
Hmm.. maybe sometimes call & sometimes sms??This makes the dating process more interesting??
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ahahahhahahahahahh
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So how call / sms already?
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Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
So how call / sms already?
Your phone rang? If not, I dont think so.
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Aye...even if it rang...it wouldn't be him
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Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:
So how call / sms already?
I post to see what are ppl's preference only..I will prefer to sms..
But i will call if i want to hear the other party's voice..
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Originally posted by LC:
Hmm.. maybe sometimes call & sometimes sms??This makes the dating process more interesting??
aiyo the 1st few dates mus show the 'target' tt u go 'heart' mah. mus call n show commitment.
easier to discuss where n when to mit. what to eat. what to do.
a 5min conversation = 1hour long sms debate.
n by chatting her up u can hear her sweet voice.
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Originally posted by skeujin:
aiyo the 1st few dates mus show the 'target' tt u go 'heart' mah. mus call n show commitment.
easier to discuss where n when to mit. what to eat. what to do.
a 5min conversation = 1hour long sms debate.
n by chatting her up u can hear her sweet voice.
"sweet voice" Agreed.
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Phone.
Msn/sms is not the way. Because the girl will have time to think of excuses to reject you. By phone, they got less reaction time.
But of course, if the girl is interested in you, no matter what way you ask her out, she'll definitely make time for you.
But if she keeps saying no, just move on.
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no need discuss lar. jus plan everything and ask her out.
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Originally posted by hondapons:
no need discuss lar. jus plan everything and ask her out.
aiyo. cannot like tt la. the most important thing is to let a gal feel that you have her best interests in mind. tt includes places to go and things to eat.
e.g. do you wana drag a gal to eat at a very expensive french restaurant when her fav food is jln kayu prata?.... nuff said
u might get away with being demanding a few times but rest assured she will not stay interested for long.
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Originally posted by skeujin:
aiyo. cannot like tt la. the most important thing is to let a gal feel that you have her best interests in mind. tt includes places to go and things to eat.
e.g. do you wana drag a gal to eat at a very expensive french restaurant when her fav food is jln kayu prata?.... nuff said
u might get away with being demanding a few times but rest assured she will not stay interested for long.
yah. i know what u mean. but i feel that it is still better to plan b4 asking her out.
skali she think that u are a guy who cant make up ur mind leh?
some more if she know that u are going to brg her out to her fav place. wau ho sey liao lor. plus point mah. its is the effort that counts.
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Originally posted by hondapons:
no need discuss lar. jus plan everything and ask her out.
Once a while its ok to pamper the girl but u cant be bring her to eat expensive restaurants all the time..Unless u are one loaded guy..
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Originally posted by hondapons:
yah. i know what u mean. but i feel that it is still better to plan b4 asking her out.
skali she think that u are a guy who cant make up ur mind leh?
some more if she know that u are going to brg her out to her fav place. wau ho sey liao lor. plus point mah. its is the effort that counts.
yah its good to plan but must ask her opinion also mah.DONT DO THIS - 'saturday, 3pm, orchard mrt, we go eat bk, be there'
DO THIS - 'i suddenly have this craving to have bk this weekend. would you like to company me? we could meet at orchard mrt @ around 3pm'
hahaha
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I believe hondapons did not mention anything about bringing the girl to expensive restaurants at all? He just mentioned about planning the whole date in advance.
IMO, planning should be done. A guy should have some backup places in case the girl don't like the 1st choice. Otherwise, go out already then stand around to decide where to go. Waste of time!
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Originally posted by LC:
Once a while its ok to pamper the girl but u cant be bring her to eat expensive restaurants all the time..Unless u are one loaded guy..
nonono. u get it all wrong. i am not saying to plan 1 fine dinning with her all the time.what i am trying to say is always plan ahead of where to eat and after dinner programme b4 u ask her out.
it will be better mah. or ask her what does she feel like eating or any places she feel like going.
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Originally posted by LC:
Once a while its ok to pamper the girl but u cant be bring her to eat expensive restaurants all the time..Unless u are one loaded guy..
dont know bout u guys but for me. the best partner i could have is one whom can sit on the pavement n snack OCK sotong balls and curry pok with me... -
Originally posted by bluepaperclip:
Phone.
Msn/sms is not the way. Because the girl will have time to think of excuses to reject you. By phone, they got less reaction time.
But of course, if the girl is interested in you, no matter what way you ask her out, she'll definitely make time for you.
But if she keeps saying no, just move on.
you tok rikes me.
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oh yah dont like gangster n ask like " Coming notch. "
hahaha