5 Body Language Clues He (Definitely) Likes You
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Is he interested in you? Body language signals to look out for.
No matter where you've met that great guy, at a friend's party, a bar or even a blind date, there's the million-dollar question you are dying to find out: Does he like me, or not? What if you could know for sure? His body language could be a dead giveaway. So quit the guesswork: David Givens, Ph.D., director of the Center for Nonverbal Studies (CNS) in Washington and author of Love Signals: A Practical Field Guide to the Body Language of Courtship, decodes body language signs that say he's into you!
SIGN #1:
He flashes his brows and smiles when he sees you.
# Body Language Decoder: Raised brows signal attraction: It's the universal sign of interest and it exists in every culture. In fact, some experts think it's the most recognized non-verbal sign of greeting used by humans. When we're attracted to someone, our eyebrows rise and fall subconsciously. And when the other person is similarly attracted, they raise their brows and smile in return. The whole exchange lasts less than a second, though, so it can be easy to miss unless you're looking out for it!
SIGN #2:
He points his body towards you.
# Body Language Decoder: If he's across the room, take a peek at his hands and feet: We tend to point toward the object of our desire subsciously. When we find someone attractive, we'll often point (with our hands, feet or toes) toward that person.
If you're engaging in a conversation with him sitting next to you, it's even easier to tell: If he leans slightly forward and keeps his shoulders and upper body squarely facing you, it shows that he's deeply interested in you and what you have to say.
SIGN #3:
He gazes at your lips while you're talking.
# Body Language Decoder: Our eyes have a body language all their own. A major telltale sign of how we feel about someone is our gazing pattern: When we look at acquaintances, like at business meetings, we keep our gazes at eye-level, focusing on the other person's eyes and the bridge of the nose.
With friends or someone we like, we hold our eye contact longer than usual and our gaze moves down to include the nose and mouth. And if he's romantically drawn to you, the look can further drop down to include parts of your body like the neck or shoulders. This type of intimate gaze conveys interest. It's as if he can't resist caressing the rest of your face and hair with his eyes, or he's imagining what it feels like to kiss you on the lips.
SIGN #4:
His pupils widen and he blinks more when looking at you.
# Body Language Decoder: The size of our pupils adjusts according to two things: Light and attraction. It's a biological reaction we cannot control. Secretly compare his pupils and another person's (like your girlfriend if she's sitting beside you) in the same surroundings. If we're looking at a person we like, our pupils will dilate, so will our blink rate. The reason: When we're excited, our body releases more adrenaline which results in dilated pupils and faster blinks, the same physiological process that makes our heart pump faster and our knees weak!
SIGN #5:
He laughs at just about everything you say.
# Body Language Decoder: If his eyebrows remain slightly raised while you're talking, it signals that he finds you fascinating. Another obvious sign that he likes you a lot: He nods, smiles, laughs and agrees with just about everything you say, including the silly stuff. He's not just being cordial, he's genuinely happy to be with you! -
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ok , you point out the clue that he like you
but any explanation why one will do that ? -
all signs point to...WRONG!
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That is interesting... I am not sure how true can that be though...
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why no char bor version
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how about short gun?
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:
why no char bor version
No char bor version for your interested in mind. We dnt wanna see you on strait time front cover. haaa....
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Originally posted by Bontakun:
That is interesting... I am not sure how true can that be though...
dnt tink it's 100% true, to my thinking of coz.
Maybe that guy / guy are friendly type can be quite close type.
Dnt be offended by my idea below ok.. Just some thoughts from me.
tks.. SIGN #1:
He flashes his brows and smiles when he sees you.
Maybe flashing as flirting or disturbing a close lady fren. May not means otherwise.
# Body Language Decoder: Raised brows signal attraction: It's the universal sign of interest and it exists in every culture. In fact, some experts think it's the most recognized non-verbal sign of greeting used by humans. When we're attracted to someone, our eyebrows rise and fall subconsciously. And when the other person is similarly attracted, they raise their brows and smile in return. The whole exchange lasts less than a second, though, so it can be easy to miss unless you're looking out for it!
SIGN #2:
He points his body towards you.
Maybe the couple could be in a rather close relationship as fren, that he might sit at his comfort. Doesn't mean he not intrested right ? My thinking again.
# Body Language Decoder: If he's across the room, take a peek at his hands and feet: We tend to point toward the object of our desire subsciously. When we find someone attractive, we'll often point (with our hands, feet or toes) toward that person.
If you're engaging in a conversation with him sitting next to you, it's even easier to tell: If he leans slightly forward and keeps his shoulders and upper body squarely facing you, it shows that he's deeply interested in you and what you have to say.
He lean forward to flirt ?? We dnt deny there are flirt around do we ? heee
SIGN #3:
He gazes at your lips while you're talking.
# Body Language Decoder: Our eyes have a body language all their own. A major telltale sign of how we feel about someone is our gazing pattern: When we look at acquaintances, like at business meetings, we keep our gazes at eye-level, focusing on the other person's eyes and the bridge of the nose.
With friends or someone we like, we hold our eye contact longer than usual and our gaze moves down to include the nose and mouth.
What if he is shy dnt dare to do eye contact with the gal ? Some guys are so shy till they dnt dare to look at you.
And if he's romantically drawn to you, the look can further drop down to include parts of your body like the neck or shoulders. This type of intimate gaze conveys interest. It's as if he can't resist caressing the rest of your face and hair with his eyes, or he's imagining what it feels like to kiss you on the lips.
SIGN #4:
His pupils widen and he blinks more when looking at you.
# Body Language Decoder: The size of our pupils adjusts according to two things: Light and attraction. It's a biological reaction we cannot control. Secretly compare his pupils and another person's (like your girlfriend if she's sitting beside you) in the same surroundings. If we're looking at a person we like, our pupils will dilate, so will our blink rate. The reason: When we're excited, our body releases more adrenaline which results in dilated pupils and faster blinks, the same physiological process that makes our heart pump faster and our knees weak!
SIGN #5:
He laughs at just about everything you say.
Maybe the gal is a joker ? I mean i am one of the joker and teaser lor...
# Body Language Decoder: If his eyebrows remain slightly raised while you're talking, it signals that he finds you fascinating. Another obvious sign that he likes you a lot: He nods, smiles, laughs and agrees with just about everything you say, including the silly stuff. He's not just being cordial, he's genuinely happy to be with you! -
FireIce �春 ah
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I read somewhere that it is actually easier to know if a guy like you than the TRUE reason WHY he like you.
Here's what I read:
What's not so easy to tell is why he's interested in you.
Some experts estimate that the majority of men who express interest in a woman do so purely out of sexual interest. These men will actively pursue the woman as long as there's the possibility that the evening might end in sex, but, if it becomes clear that intimacy is not on the menu, they'll quickly lose interest and drift away. If you're one of those women, you may be left thinking, "What did I do wrong? Was it something I said?" A man losing interest in you is not the same as him rejecting you. The loss of interest may be due to a variety of factors. The more superficial a man's interest in you, the more easily he will be dissuaded. His loss of interest often says more about the type of man he is than it does about you.
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Originally posted by FireIce:
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Is he interested in you? Body language signals to look out for.
SIGN #5:
He laughs at just about everything you say.
# Body Language Decoder: If his eyebrows remain slightly raised while you're talking, it signals that he finds you fascinating. Another obvious sign that he likes you a lot: He nods, smiles, laughs and agrees with just about everything you say, including the silly stuff. He's not just being cordial, he's genuinely happy to be with you!I hope the guy's not GENUINELY happy to be with a girl because he's unto something...
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about sign #4
who can really see?
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Originally posted by alfagal:
about sign #4
who can really see?
hahaa i think thats near impossible to realise. unless you stare at him long long lor.
i think for sign 3 isnt really accurate since some ple like me prefer to lean in with our listening ear towards the person, not that we are becoming deaf or anything!
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must relli look deeply into the eyes then can see
but i think oso quite weird to stare at the eyes so intensely....
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Originally posted by cApitaland:
hahaa i think thats near impossible to realise. unless you stare at him long long lor.
i think for sign 3 isnt really accurate since some ple like me prefer to lean in with our listening ear towards the person, not that we are becoming deaf or anything!
arm ourselves w maglite, the min we pop up in front of him, switch it on!!! -
lol FI..ya lar weird right...
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Originally posted by alfagal:
arm ourselves w maglite, the min we pop up in front of him, switch it on!!!liddat he cnfm will like you hahaa.
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wad bout 5 body language clues She (Definitely) Likes You
