Communication
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Friends here,
What is your definition of 'communication' between a guy & a girl?
Do note that it does NOT apply to all people, only majority. Take some time to think how you interact with the opposite gender.
Guys, you noticed you quickly got bored with the 'gals' chat? How they can easily talk about ANYTHING under the sun and so quickly?
Gals, you noticed how adament are the guys at when talking about one subject? They can talk all day long on the one topic they started with!
Now, how do you communicate with your BF/GF or opposite gender? Fustrated why they cannot get your drift? Annoyed why they keep harping on the same thing? Bewildered how the conversation did not go to where you wanted?
One thing you have to take note when it comes to interaction with the opposite gender: you have to understand how guys talk and how gals talk.
Illustration:
Guys like to remain focused on one subject they are talking about. They communicate with the intention of wanting to solve the issue at hand. Until they are satisfied or they got the answer, they will not let other topics deviate it.
Gals on the otherhand bring many things into the topic. It is intertwined with what they are saying. Emotions, family, work, leisure, stress, freedom and more all thrown into the conversation. Notice how they change subject so quickly and yet so smoothly like its linked?
So let me ask you again:
What is your definition of 'communication' between a guy & a girl? -
Understand what are they trying to bring abt and comfortable with each other presence
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Interesting point.Originally posted by CannyOng:Understand what are they trying to bring abt and comfortable with each other presence
I assume you can understand all, if not most, of what is spoken in the conversation from the opposite gender right?
The thing is not all can easily or readily understand. Some even refuse to understand.
So the thing here is NOT making one understand but to appreciate the effort put in trying to understand the conversation from the opposite gender.
Am I close to what you are trying to say? -
Know what she or he is hinting thru the conversation.... his/her purpose of the conversation!
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even if she says this, you actually know she means that.