looks really aren't THAT important. decently nice looking can already. charms are really much much more important la. ur charisma and presence. also dress sense. don't ever wear jeans that end at the ankles and reveal ur white socks. looks damn cock. yada yada yada, u'll figure it out after some time.Originally posted by rathcycle:but then you is want heart and want looks.. very hard to find 1 leh..
hmmz....Originally posted by luvelle:looks really aren't THAT important. decently nice looking can already. charms are really much much more important la. ur charisma and presence. also dress sense. don't ever wear jeans that end at the ankles and reveal ur white socks. looks damn cock. yada yada yada, u'll figure it out after some time.
why u hmmm... i said something wrong? u dress liddat ah?Originally posted by rathcycle:hmmz....
if u are so pessimistic, im going to ask to go marry a realdoll suan le.Originally posted by ChingAlvin:Nice face, but buang complexion how?
Nice face,but buang body size how?
Nice face, but buang voice how?
Good heart, but buang face how?
Good heart, but buang mentality how?
Good heart, but old fashion how?
you have to put in effort to look your best, if that's what matters to her. if your girl happens to be chio and likes dressing up, of cos u dun expect to dress up like a cok and go out with her right? no one says muz look good + good heart at the same time. looking good is relative. must see how much she prioritises appearances. genetics no good nvm one la. as long as u're good at presenting urself and wearing the right clothes at the right time. trust me la. u see lotsa pretty gals end up w not-so-good-looking guys also.Originally posted by ChingAlvin:haha not i pessimistic la..
coz i see those replies, good face and good heart = BEST
If got 1 dun have the other how?
yes yes. very true. it's how u present urself. like i said, charisma + confidence. no girl likes the company of a good-looker (or just about any guy) who is boring... *yawn*Originally posted by ispyyy:probably...
handsome or ugly is just one of the properties of first impression
First impression also includes :
i) Aura that is being protrayed by yrself
ii) Reading body language
iii) Reading facial expression
iv) Interpreting words from yr opponent
U can be agressive but u need to noe when to stop and when to be...
Actually, the above not only work in dating also work in working life especially on sales
hippo prefer to use SMSOriginally posted by FireIce:for shy ppl, instant messaging can be a good way to communicate
u dun see the person's face
and u have time to think and compose the msg.......so u prevent those slip of the tongues and stammers......