sometimes when we wun really know unless we are already in a r/s with that person?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:Get into a relationship only when u are really very clear that the gal is really the one for u bah
But l think is impt to know the person 1st, waited and understand her before making any considerations bah, and also must tink for urself...do u really love her? Are u able to cope with the r/s? Are u mature enuf to handle all the problems that u mite encountered with her..are u willingly to bear hardship and put in commitment for the r/s... all these hav to be think properlyOriginally posted by rainee:sometimes when we wun really know unless we are already in a r/s with that person?
actually what you said made me realize another reason i will go into a bgr. to find out whether that person is right for me or not
yea la of cos must understand and get to know the person before going into a r/s. I will only go into a r/s if I think he has a potential to become my life partner or the one whom I will spend my whole life with.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:But l think is impt to know the person 1st, waited and understand her before making any considerations bah, and also must tink for urself...do u really love her? Are u able to cope with the r/s? Are u mature enuf to handle all the problems that u mite encountered with her..are u willingly to bear hardship and put in commitment for the r/s... all these hav to be think properly
Cuz if u go into a bgr...without really understand ur partner and without thinking on ur own ...it may cause more problems and stress for u oso if both of u failed to manage it properly..
Last time...l tink that r/s is juz u like her, she like u then okie liao...but is not..so l tink be careful and patient 1st la..to tink properly before making any moves..afterall BGR is not a game oso mah...
Ya lo...haha actually ur opinions are juz abt the same as mine...Must understand and noe the person liao...then 2nd step is to tink abt urself liao lo..whether u really like and the other factors...Originally posted by rainee:yea la of cos must understand and get to know the person before going into a r/s. I will only go into a r/s if I think he has a potential to become my life partner or the one whom I will spend my whole life with.
O_oOriginally posted by Xiao Jun:BGR is 2 travellers brought together by fate...finding out if destiny will reward them with a common future
Decent effort reaps rewards...or so I hope...Originally posted by Bontakun:O_o
Reward? I though the travellers must find the common thing/future/interest/any thing else on their own to know if they are able to be together? Hmm... interesting point.
Have the time? Dun get this part... Can explain more?Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Decent effort reaps rewards...or so I hope...
Maybe I should rephrase it...when I have e time of course~
Boy-Gal Relationship har? Share share abit leh.Originally posted by a-Lost-9uY:e former 1
Originally posted by rainee:build good relationship
i see as something which you dun just go in just for fun, but sth that you wud need to maintain even after you have been in it for a while...sth that will definitely take a lot of efforts from both parties