How to keep a man? Women...What do you understand about men?
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Finally, a good and specific reply for my question.Originally posted by browniebaobao:i also duno what to post.. dun mind me if i got carried away..
i juz dun understand man's ego... how big is it?
1) how would he feel if i insist on paying for my own meal, my stuff etc? How would this affect the r/s? Last time din even know of the thing called 'ego'.. and being the stubborn me.. i rather pay for us than to let him pay for me.
2) how to make my man open up to me?
Past experiences tell me that man like to keep things to themselves.. and if they really need to talk, they would find their good female frens, than to share with their girlfriend (and true enough.. my guy frens also come to me when they have issue with their wife/gf).. Ever quarrelled with my first love about this issue.. bcos i thought i was so insignificant to him that he din even want to tell me even tho i begged him for weeks... but he told my buddy instead. And I had to find out from her. That's really sarcastic.
3) What do men want from a relationship?
Pardon me for saying this, but my past relationships tell me that it's companionship and lust that they are after.
4) Man = rubber band?
I read the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' by John Gray.. still remember the 'rubber band theory'.. it says men reacts like rubber bands.. if he needs to be alone, let him be and he will come back to you after that. How true is that? My Leo ex told me he's different.
5) How to make a man commit?
It seems that commitment is the hardest thing for men..
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There is no use in telling me to relax after you have been rude and insulting to me and people whom i care for.Originally posted by dokono:Hey relax, relax.. I was just in a joking mood and did not expect to think otherwise, or worse rude.
Don't get too angry. This is supposed to be a friendly forum. The 100 exes was supposed to be a joke. Don't get too angry over it ok? We don't come here to get personal.
You asked why and I gave you the opinions though they were too straightforward.
And if you don't like it, it's ok.
Relax. It's the past already.
doko
There is also no use in PM-ing trying to make peace after you have been rude to me and people whom i care for.
Calling people idiot is not an opinion!
Saying a gal had 100 exes (when that is not the truth!) is not an opinion too!
Neither are they jokes nor are they funny!
Those are disrespectful insults!
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
Chill my dear~~... dun let him spoil ur day...
There is no use in telling me to relax after you have been rude and insulting to me and people whom i care for.
There is also no use in PM-ing trying to make peace after you have been rude to me and people whom i care for.
Calling people idiot is not an opinion!
Saying a gal had 100 exes (when that is not the truth!) is not an opinion too!
Neither are they jokes nor are they funny!
Those are disrespectful insults!
And that is personal!
there r others who care for u too~
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People whom i dun give a sh1t for cant spoil my day *winkOriginally posted by sunny6110:Chill my dear~~... dun let him spoil ur day...
there r others who care for u too~
juz gotta make my stand -
how to lose a man?
i wonder.. -
Thats easy!!!Originally posted by alexkusu:how to lose a man?
i wonder..
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Easy~! Be a Man or equivalent~Originally posted by alexkusu:how to lose a man?
i wonder.. -
is it..really? especially a committed one?Originally posted by blu_sky:Thats easy!!! -
go study ur books lar!Originally posted by sunny6110:Easy~! Be a Man or equivalent~ 
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yes, i think so. so many ways of doin it.Originally posted by alexkusu:is it..really? especially a committed one?
it is always easier a spoil a thing than to make something work, dont you think? -
now u know y comments on forums should be taken wif a pinch of salt?Originally posted by alexkusu:go study ur books lar! 
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Maybe you can learn something from making things spoilt? Like you know how it can spoil or what is the effect of it being spoilt, etc, etc souch that you know how to handle it better in the future.Originally posted by blu_sky:yes, i think so. so many ways of doin it.
it is always easier a spoil a thing than to make something work, dont you think?
There is always things to learn. Even from "failed" experiments.
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Originally posted by blu_sky:
I have offered my apologies and if you choose to remain that way, I have nothing to say. The ball is now in your court to make peace.
[b]There is no use in telling me to relax after you have been rude and insulting to me and people whom i care for.
There is also no use in PM-ing trying to make peace after you have been rude to me and people whom i care for.
Calling people idiot is not an opinion!
Saying a gal had 100 exes (when that is not the truth!) is not an opinion too!
Neither are they jokes nor are they funny!
Those are disrespectful insults!
And that is personal![/b]
PS: it's my fault for calling your ex names, I will delete the post if you want.
doko -
So many ways ah...care to name a few?Originally posted by blu_sky:yes, i think so. so many ways of doin it.
it is always easier a spoil a thing than to make something work, dont you think? -
No I dont know! Me very serious oneOriginally posted by sunny6110:now u know y comments on forums should be taken wif a pinch of salt?
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For 1, just need to come out with a compromise. Of cos not nice to let him pay all the time, and you cant pay for both of you all the time either (it will make him take you for granted). So maybe just let him pay for the meals and you pay for the drinks? That way, he will at least feel you are trying to help out but not until he feels that you are insinuating he is not able to provide for you (he might get this idea if you keep insisting to pay for both of you all the time)Originally posted by browniebaobao:i also duno what to post.. dun mind me if i got carried away..
i juz dun understand man's ego... how big is it?
1) how would he feel if i insist on paying for my own meal, my stuff etc? How would this affect the r/s? Last time din even know of the thing called 'ego'.. and being the stubborn me.. i rather pay for us than to let him pay for me.
2) how to make my man open up to me?
Past experiences tell me that man like to keep things to themselves.. and if they really need to talk, they would find their good female frens, than to share with their girlfriend (and true enough.. my guy frens also come to me when they have issue with their wife/gf).. Ever quarrelled with my first love about this issue.. bcos i thought i was so insignificant to him that he din even want to tell me even tho i begged him for weeks... but he told my buddy instead. And I had to find out from her. That's really sarcastic.
3) What do men want from a relationship?
Pardon me for saying this, but my past relationships tell me that it's companionship and lust that they are after.
4) Man = rubber band?
I read the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' by John Gray.. still remember the 'rubber band theory'.. it says men reacts like rubber bands.. if he needs to be alone, let him be and he will come back to you after that. How true is that? My Leo ex told me he's different.
5) How to make a man commit?
It seems that commitment is the hardest thing for men..
For 5, I don't think it is hard to make a guy commit. It just has to be with the right person, at the right time -
dunno...maybe there are, already got some mention they got this characteristic of mine inside this thread anywayOriginally posted by dokono:Are there more girls like you?
doko -
Hmm...i observed that you're asking silly questions.Originally posted by alexkusu:how to lose a man?
i wonder..
But it's still a question! -
TLC simply meansOriginally posted by dokono:What's TLC?
doko
TENDER
LOVING
CARE
not tasty little crackers! Unless she likes it of cos -
and so?Originally posted by M©+square:Finally, a good and specific reply for my question.
aren't u gg to post something?
im waiting wor. -
You alone not enough leh.Originally posted by browniebaobao:and so?
aren't u gg to post something?
im waiting wor.
LS haven't post leh -
answer my questions first lor.Originally posted by M©+square:You alone not enough leh.
LS haven't post leh -
Don't restrict and don't demand too much, you never know you over do it.
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and dun give too much? coz he will take it for granted.Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Don't restrict and don't demand too much, you never know you over do it. -
The more you worry the harder it will be.Originally posted by browniebaobao:and dun give too much? coz he will take it for granted.