Confession time?

• JackOT

  15 Jan 07, 06:05

  I've been going out with a girl. She have just broke up with her boyfriend, but we go out alone when she was still in the relationship.
  
  I like her and probably she knows. Can anyone advise me, when should I confess to her that I like her? Or should I even consider telling her of my feelings?
  
  I don't know if she just want to be friends, or she wants to move on to another level...
  
  Thanks.
• fudgester

  15 Jan 07, 07:26

  In my opinion, it's still too early to do so.
  
  Since she just broke up with her boyfriend, she might still not have gotten over her previous relationship. This is all the more so if the break-up was messy. She may not be ready to have another guy in her life just yet.
  
  Give her a few weeks at least.
• M©+square

  15 Jan 07, 10:23

  Originally posted by JackOT:

  I've been going out with a girl. She have just broke up with her boyfriend, but we go out alone when she was still in the relationship.
  
  I like her and probably she knows. Can anyone advise me, when should I confess to her that I like her? Or should I even consider telling her of my feelings?
  
  I don't know if she just want to be friends, or she wants to move on to another level...
  
  Thanks.

  How often do you date her?
  Can you identify who is the pacer/initiater? You or Her?
• JackOT

  15 Jan 07, 11:10

  I knew she has bf, wasn't interested at all. So, I would say she's the initiator.
  
  She's leaving SG for studies in late Feb, I don't know what I want. But I do like her.
  
  Damn, if only I know if she likes me or not.
  
  The frequency ah, I would not so frequent recently. I automatic one also lar...haha. She just broke up, I don't want to be seen as an opportunist.
  
  
• alegna_t13

  15 Jan 07, 14:04

  Maybe she look for you cos now she has all that extra time but nobody to company her, need your company nia.
  
  Moreover she going overseas for studies le.
  
  My advice, keep it as frens jiu hao le...