Ignored by my own sister
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Hello. Found this site =D. pls go easy on me cos this is my first post.
kk, last time my siblings ain't like this the last time. Me and my sister were really bonded at that time. She often jio me out to her friends and sometimes just her alone. But i always preferf to go with her alone, her friends are ok but i still to be with her alone as in just two of us walk here and there. She is like my best friend. I really love it when she called me out to go with her to shop or whatever. But ever since i keep on sleep in her room and like do some stuff in her room. She looks kind of irritated. And that time i sit next to her during dinner, she would switch seats even when sitting on couch watching tv.
She would close her door even. I dont get it. Why a sudden change of mood. I really love her but this is not i wanted. And the most embarrassing part is when i touch her as in hold her hands or accidentaly touch her, she would totally jerk off and like clean swipe off her hand. omg. what was that all about?
Now is my heart getting more and more darker or something like that. She is getting away to uni in about a month or so. And she can't wait to get out, thats what she said. I was so hurt. I really going to miss her but what the hell is wrong with her
Does your siblings sometime change mood?
Im a guy btw and whats up with the every 5 minute post?
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u boy or gal ???
mi last time veri good with my bro
now like rivals
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how many rooms in yr house?? as children grow up to teenagers, u need to go separately..last time my Dad use to carry me, now, how can??
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Nothing, dont think too much about it......
Later will be normal again.....
You also need to give her some space......
But dont worry about it.......dont be too dramatic.
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Hmmm...sounds to me like she's getting weird ideas...from what you described...it sounds like she thinks you're trying to get fresh with her.
Hmmm give her some space lor...maybe she feels that she has grown up le...can't behave like your baby sis anymore.
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It's like that. When both of you were younger, it's natural to be closer to each other, but when grown up, things start to change more or less. Moreover, you are a guy, and I believe she doesn't feel comfortable having a guy (regardless of whether you are her brother or not) to get touchy or too close with her.
To me, you sound like you love her more like a lover rather than a sibling's love. I dunno, maybe she feels the same way too, that's why she's now reacting this way. Give her some space and a bit of respect for her privacy.
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TS,
she girl leh of cos sensitive to any man's closeness to her what
give her some space
and fellow forumers, dun give TS anymore attention
the whole situation is as simple as that
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Originally posted by smooth-fetish:
Hello. Found this site =D. pls go easy on me cos this is my first post.
kk, last time my siblings ain't like this the last time. Me and my sister were really bonded at that time. She often jio me out to her friends and sometimes just her alone. But i always preferf to go with her alone, her friends are ok but i still to be with her alone as in just two of us walk here and there. She is like my best friend. I really love it when she called me out to go with her to shop or whatever. But ever since i keep on sleep in her room and like do some stuff in her room. She looks kind of irritated. And that time i sit next to her during dinner, she would switch seats even when sitting on couch watching tv.
She would close her door even. I dont get it. Why a sudden change of mood. I really love her but this is not i wanted. And the most embarrassing part is when i touch her as in hold her hands or accidentaly touch her, she would totally jerk off and like clean swipe off her hand. omg. what was that all about?
Now is my heart getting more and more darker or something like that. She is getting away to uni in about a month or so. And she can't wait to get out, thats what she said. I was so hurt. I really going to miss her but what the hell is wrong with her
Does your siblings sometime change mood?
Im a guy btw and whats up with the every 5 minute post?
Your sister is entering uni, and that will mean she is around 20, give or take a few years.
At this age you shouldn't be sleeping in her room and doing your stuff there already - it is her private space.
Instead of being clingy, you should give her some personal space.
Anyway, the 5 minute post is to prevent advertisers from spamming the site.
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Time for her to be independent. For her to be her own person.
If you love her, let her grow. Let her be free, and she will love you just the same.
If you want to stick to her, she will be fed up with you.
Now you want you parents to hold your hands and go jalan jalan or not. Same.
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you like smooth clothes?
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pm me her number...i help u ask the reasons why..
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Do you know whats boy girl relationship ?. Does your mother still bath you like when you are a little kid ? Even as brother/sister you ought to keep a respectable distance from each other. Use some common sense 2010 please.
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I dun talk to my sis no more. she becoming more xia lan now these days, feeling like giving her a tight slap. see her in the house also treat her as invisible. also dun feel for her anymore.
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haiz... when u lose them den uill realise how precious they are....
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when you are still children, you dun have concept of selfishness, greedy, jealousy, envy etc. when you grow up as an adult, you have all these selfish feelings and thoughts. that is why a lot of adults are not close to their family, as they are always quarrelling over a small issue, not to mention money matters, ownership of house/flat and inheritance.
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I think even if think back, also think back about the childhood memories of close. certainly wont think back on the quarrels and fights as an adult.
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Face the fact that humans do grow up and have other pirioties. She is gonna have a boyfriend, you are gonna have your own wife. Utimately sibilings relationship is gonna be affected. Its all part of growing up.
If you treat her as family, just let her go. She has a brain of her own and old enough to think. Rashly talking to her or confronting her will only worsen your relationship. Till then send her a sms once in a while maybe to come back for dinner or something. Your are still family after all. Chat about how are you doing and stuff.
Not doing chlidish things like hold her hand etc..... Please.....
However if the love is not family love and its the type of romantic love. Please ignore the above.
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maybe she finds you are stalking her or worse, harbour fetish on her.
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get a life...people here could give you advice on colleagues, friends etc. but...but...not on your own family problems because this is a rather sensitive issue and there's hardly any right or wrong
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
when you are still children, you dun have concept of selfishness, greedy, jealousy, envy etc. when you grow up as an adult, you have all these selfish feelings and thoughts. that is why a lot of adults are not close to their family, as they are always quarrelling over a small issue, not to mention money matters, ownership of house/flat and inheritance.
agreed
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you're too clingy
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Originally posted by Rooney9:
I dun talk to my sis no more. she becoming more xia lan now these days, feeling like giving her a tight slap. see her in the house also treat her as invisible. also dun feel for her anymore.
LOL +2.
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u sounds like an incest person. i read it like as if u rly rly love her...... so close. MAYBE tats the reason why she avoiding u.....
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I think this is the reason...
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